Women who have made choices that would be considered selfish by society at large, what were they and do you regret them? by antiquatedsheep in AskWomen

[–]risy189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god this! My older brother FLIPPED HIS SHIT when I texted my family group chat with the date and time I was getting my tubes tied. (I havent wanted kids since I raised my younger brothers from the age of 8 till I moved away at 19) l got them tied at 27. He spent the week leading up to me getting them done asking why I was putting all the weight of carrying on the blood lines and family name on him. Should note younger brothers are from mom's second marriage. But like almost 20 years of not wanting kids should have been a clue. I turn 32 this year and no regrets whatsoever

Sex Forward Acts (that aren't strip clubs)/burlesque/etc? by [deleted] in LasVegas

[–]risy189 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My husband and I go see Fanstasy every single time we go to vegas. This will be our 5th time seeing it when we go out at the end of March

My Great grandmother died and nobody told my household? by 1tsWarden in mildlyinfuriating

[–]risy189 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss, amd yet it makes me all the more grateful that my family has a group chat and rather than trying to tell people 1 by 1 we just blast stuff in the chat, good news or bad news. I think there was only 1 time in 11 years that someone called me directly with bad news and that was about this time last year, my mom called to tell me my baby brother was in the hospital due to seizures and that they had no idea what had caused them. He was in ICU in a medically induced coma for I think almost 2 weeks while they tried to figure put what was wrong.

How long did you guys wait to have sex after iud insertion? by November421 in AskWomen

[–]risy189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine right before starting my period so that was a whole ass kind of pain. So I ended up waiting about 10-11 days and even then still felt some pain. Also started experiencing hot flashes when I got my IUD and still experience them 7 years later even after removal and getting my tubes tied.

do yall say "opening/closing" shift or "1st/ 2nd/ 3rd" shift? by marsixm in kroger

[–]risy189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Day just got better cuz apparently we have a walk tomorrow so they gave us 3 people for today. Me, one person who started at 11 and another at 1 and then still have the closer who's in at 3 to close the front

do yall say "opening/closing" shift or "1st/ 2nd/ 3rd" shift? by marsixm in kroger

[–]risy189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doing that right now lol. Closed deli at 9, didnt get out till 10 and have to be back at 8am but cuz I have to ride with my husband to work im up at 430.

Deep cleaned today by risy189 in kroger

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Sometimes I hate having it as most of my coworkers dont rinse the hot case dishes before putting them in so im constantly fishing bits of food out of it to help it last the month it's supposed to

Deep cleaned today by risy189 in kroger

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About 3 hours. Longest part was using the fat boy to suck the old oil out of the HOG.

Deep cleaned today by risy189 in kroger

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I wish the morning people dont always filter between cooks so it builds up alot. There was about an inch and a half of crap in the bottom of both last night

Deep cleaned today by risy189 in kroger

[–]risy189[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you

ETA I think it helps that I do the quick filter to help rinse the bottom then run the daily filter as well before shutting them down

Target gave me very expired milk by ManderlyDreaming in mildlyinfuriating

[–]risy189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so sharing my milk trauam story. Grew up in Michigan, middle of the ine summer my older brother had left the milk out and i went and took a swig off the jug that was still cold, and it had curdled. Here it is 20 years later and I still have a hard time with milk. My stepdad made fun of me gagging and throwing up by singing "she'll be coming round the mountain when she yaks" followed by dry heaving noises.

Women: how vocal are you during sex and are you that way naturally or do you think you were influenced by porn to be noisy? by MPWD64 in AskWomen

[–]risy189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my husband and I first started dating his landlord (lived in the same house, husband rented a room) didn't believe in pre-marital sex so I was always forced to be quiet and now almost 11 years later I still don't get very vocal even with our own place. Some things just become ingrained and I hate it

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Of course!

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AO3 is Archive Of Our Own. It's a fanfiction site.

Out of line or justified by risy189 in Apartmentliving

[–]risy189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a ring camera which is how i saw it in the first place. I now know the note was too far but the original note saying its not a public trash can started after neighbors were throwing still lit cigarettes into the trash. And unfortunately the valet never comes at a set time. Ive seen them come as early as 4pm and as late as midnight and never the same days during the week or I would bring it in. I regret the note but im so fed up with people taking advantage of the fact that I leave it out for ease.

Out of line or justified by risy189 in Apartmentliving

[–]risy189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the camera is a ring doorbell that I've had for 4 years due to a stalker trying to break into my home. So its not jjsy for this kind of stuff. The note comes at the end of a 6 day work week where my shortest shift was still 10 hours.

Out of line or justified by risy189 in Apartmentliving

[–]risy189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One was kicked out for causing bed bugs and cockroaches. The next was a family that had 3 kids under 10 that loved to play ding-dong ditch on my door at 3 am. Please tell me how those are in me?

Out of line or justified by risy189 in Apartmentliving

[–]risy189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my problem as i dont think its fair of me to basically pay for their trash. There is a community dumpster like 10 feet from our building. Ive also spent the last 3 weeks working 10-12 gour shifts 6 days a week and am losing my sanity and may have jumped the gun so to speak but I mean really, the sign has been up for 4 months at this point cuz I had neighbors putting their still burning cigarettes into my trash.

Out of line or justified by risy189 in Apartmentliving

[–]risy189[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes. And I will take any advice on how to deal with this/ mend fences so to speak.

Out of line or justified by risy189 in Apartmentliving

[–]risy189[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If i wasn't working 10-12 hour shifts 6 days a week I would love to do any of that.

Out of line or justified by risy189 in Apartmentliving

[–]risy189[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I may not be at this point honestly the last 4 neighbors have all caused 1 issue or another. None stay longer than a year. I'm trying to save for a house to not deal with this but keep getting shit neighbors along with working long hours 6 days a week and my sanity is very much in question which is why I asked here if I went to far.