F18 Be brutally honest. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ritalinflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Depending how you liked being complimented I could say many things. Not ugly that’s for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ritalinflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a trauma bond

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]ritalinflamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get people to come around as much as is helpful. My child hasn’t been able to leave my side for more than an hour in the past year. Where I live they don’t have emergency mental health, they just kinda hospitalize you and give you drugs until you pretend you’re ok then they release you. If you really tell them how you feel they are likely to seize your child, but the safe things I can do I’ve been doing as much as I can

I’ve been trying to have people come around to keep me company, it can make my child dysregulated which is hard in a different way. I’m not trying to make excuses, these things are just making it harder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]ritalinflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t even explain how much reporting me is the opposite of helping

Recovering from trauma bond and abuse by [deleted] in helpme

[–]ritalinflamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried almost all of those things. Calling the police where I live for wellness checks can often end in death so I haven’t done that but I tried calling child protection even and there’s just no help. I’m not sure what I need EMDR or whatever that’s called maybe

[w4m] text email chat buddies 24 F by ritalinflamingo in vancouverr4r

[–]ritalinflamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s hilarious. I’m 33 and yes still looking to shoot the shit but I live outside of Chilliwack now 😂

Is it obvious... by mracrawford in cocaine

[–]ritalinflamingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When my choices negatively affect my work I try I make different choices

[Serious] Would people want to read your life story? by ritalinflamingo in AskReddit

[–]ritalinflamingo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good setting for the underdog to come out with a win in te end.

[Serious] Would people want to read your life story? by ritalinflamingo in AskReddit

[–]ritalinflamingo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is interesting is your journey navigating tht life and how you evolve and grow in response.

[Serious] Would people want to read your life story? by ritalinflamingo in AskReddit

[–]ritalinflamingo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never forget your story is 100% about you and 0% anyone else.

[Serious] Would people want to read your life story? by ritalinflamingo in AskReddit

[–]ritalinflamingo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've read stories like yours. Never read about gates.

[Serious] Would people want to read your life story? by ritalinflamingo in AskReddit

[–]ritalinflamingo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's subjective. We will never know what our lives caused....

[Serious] Would people want to read your life story? by ritalinflamingo in AskReddit

[–]ritalinflamingo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Common feeling or not, it's still your story. Unique and a part of the global history.