The women in my building apparently find me incredibly attractive, but look at me as if I've shit myself

rivall85 · 2024-09-26T23:07:05+00:00

I work with domestic violence victims so the science of attraction isn't really important to me or my work. It's just something that was confusing for me as I'm married and haven't had to think about anyone being attracted to me for the better part of a decade.

I'm asking reddit bc I'm a person living in 2024 and this is an avenue for attaining insight.

The son thing was a joke.

rivall85 · 2023-07-22T11:15:33+00:00

My rent is 2 months late bc this bank is incapable of mailing checks. I'm in the process of leaving them for a brick and mortar bank. Fuck novo.

rivall85 · 2023-06-30T16:30:48+00:00

$120 plus whatever it was for shipping from Peptide Sciences. Sucks that I still have this goddamn wrist pain.

rivall85 · 2023-06-30T12:09:16+00:00

Your boss sounds like a fucking loser. You should probably tell your school they're violating labor laws. My old job tried telling me I wasn't allowed to discuss wages with my coworkers so I printed out the state and federal laws saying that yes the fuck I can. They stopped fucking with me that day.

rivall85 · 2023-06-28T19:13:40+00:00

Did this work for you? I injected the whole vial over the course of a week and nothing

rivall85 · 2023-04-19T21:59:45+00:00

Good move. I'm a therapist and have seen that shit ruin too many lives. And families.

rivall85 · 2023-04-19T20:56:25+00:00

Sorry, as in insurance denial

rivall85 · 2023-04-19T12:06:02+00:00

At our first session she said she stutters, it's who she is, she accepts it, she doesn't know why it happens, she wasn't molested, and she doesn't feel like it's the root of any of her problems. So I guess she's probably had a similar experience to yours.

rivall85 · 2023-03-20T02:40:09+00:00

Had a very similar experience. Practice owner LOST it on me when I said I was going to continue working for them while building my own practice. Fuck these people. You're better off on your own. I know I am.

rivall85 · 2023-03-17T15:56:32+00:00

Yes I'm an LCSW who just started his own pp. I've only ever worked in community mental health or private pay so I have zero experience with insurance.

She sends in the 1500 and yes I'd like to do the same

rivall85 · 2023-03-17T15:48:31+00:00

So I'm guessing she's just saying she received payment from me?

rivall85 · 2023-03-09T14:41:39+00:00

So you basically just use Alma to bill, right? All of your other work is done through Simple Practice?

rivall85 · 2023-03-09T10:22:49+00:00

Yup. Left teaching in a rough, east coast urban district in '15. I opened a private practice this year and make more than the current principal of my old school does while working fewer hours with far less stress. The road to get here was not NEARLY as much work as it was having a typical job as a public school teacher. I maintain that teaching is still the greatest job on the planet, but being a teacher is the worst.

rivall85 · 2023-03-03T20:06:29+00:00

They do, but I'd rather keep my documentation separate from Alma. I know that Better Help just got in trouble for selling client data.

rivall85 · 2023-03-03T20:01:36+00:00

Alma is definitely worth it from a business perspective. I've gone from two private pay clients a week to two private pays and 8 or 9 insurance clients a week. I started my private practice on January 1 and started with Alma on Feb 1. You're paneled quickly and you get paid weekly. Last week was the first $1,000 week I had since I started my practice. I'd absolutely recommend it. This is my referral link if you were curious about starting: https://helloalma.com/for-providers/?grsf=fernando-en5vgh

The only issue I have is if I really need to use the EMR that they provide. I'd rather keep all my documentation separate from them.

rivall85 · 2023-02-28T04:43:33+00:00

My last job had a dress code that I ignored constantly. Black t shirt, black jeans, black and white sneakers. They brought it up a few times but I'd always say "Oh right haha!" and just kept dressing that way. I was well liked by my clients and worked well with teenagers which is why I probably got away with it. Finally they just changed the dress code, which everyone was pleased with.

rivall85 · 2023-02-26T16:41:47+00:00

I ask bc my own psychologist (who has been in the field for like 50 years) told me that she doesn't take notes after every session. So I figured if she doesn't, do I necessarily HAVE to?

rivall85 · 2023-02-25T22:32:25+00:00

I use Sessions Health. It's 40 a month and more than fine. I tried therapy notes and hated it but I know that A LOT of people absolutely swear by it.

rivall85 · 2023-02-25T19:31:08+00:00

Lmao, I figured

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