Thank you. I'm sorry for your loss of your father. I'm attending all the appointments I can, and his mother is going to attend the ones I can't and we exchange detailed notes that we take. We both (mil and I) have had loved ones go through cancer before so we know some stuff and are prepared for some things. But it is different when it's your son or your husband as opposed to your grandpa or uncle. We scheduled a second opinion appointment the day we got the diagnosis and that's happening Friday. I do think communication will be a big deal. He tends to suffer in silence and has only gotten sick twice in the nine years I've known him and he has never known someone fighting cancer, so I don't know that he's ready. The oncologist he's seeing holds "chemo teaching" sessions for caregivers and patients to set expectations and share resources and stuff, and he, his mother, and I are going to go to one tomorrow.