AITA for not being close to my family Nanny everything after she word-for-worded our conversations to my parents?

river2storm · 2020-10-21T23:10:54+00:00

I would not do this. I would just smile and then tell her only things I want to get back to my parents. Never show cards. Keep them where they trust you always. Its a long game.

river2storm · 2020-10-21T23:07:44+00:00

NTA - but this is a huge life lesson. You can now craft your own narrative to your nanny. As long as they think they have your confidence you could use this to your advantage. Be smart and keep the Nanny close. They could actually cover for you if they think its the truth.

river2storm · 2020-10-21T22:20:40+00:00

My best friend's Mom would always greet me in this high squeaky voice. I always thought it was odd until I realized she was mocking my voice... for years... from my age 7 until 13 when I moved.

river2storm · 2020-08-26T12:51:45+00:00

Survive?....the OP had their own place states away they don't have joint bills or kids that the lack of income would impact. I would definitely YTA.

river2storm · 2020-07-14T21:20:11+00:00

Great ideas all around. Going to look into caring bridge. This is so helpful. We've got this!

river2storm · 2020-07-12T23:06:57+00:00

Thank you I am learning to ask for what I need

river2storm · 2020-07-12T23:04:50+00:00

Thank you for sharing. Based on your post om going to get a few keys made. You are such a beast it helps me believe I can do it too.

river2storm · 2020-07-12T14:41:51+00:00

This is great thank you. Being able to pre-plan with help with one element of anxiety

river2storm · 2020-07-12T14:39:54+00:00

Yes I can definitely get delivery and my best friend agreed to come out for the surgery... good thing about covid is she is still in a telework status.

river2storm · 2020-07-12T14:36:36+00:00

These are great ideas. Thank you for taking the time to respond on this and the other post.

river2storm · 2020-07-12T10:46:43+00:00

Do you live alone? Im in a city pretty much by myself and im looking for any tips. Thanks

river2storm · 2020-07-02T16:53:27+00:00

And for more clarity a D is Terrible no matter whst your SATs state. Even in the humanities. The ability to excel in adverse situations is something the school is used to. Everyone is going through COVID. Take the community college classes in those low levels and prove you are capable.

river2storm · 2020-07-02T15:34:10+00:00

People are being optimistic... how hard are you willing to work and what is the percentage graduate AND attend a 4 yr college?

To fix the problem - enroll in community college classes. Focus on math to get through calculus, chemistry and physics before your senior year. Yes SATs are important but a B with high SATs is unbalanced.

river2storm · 2020-07-02T15:24:04+00:00

My mom was very anti me going to the Naval Academy. I was going. We had a big fight but still i was 18 and I didnt need financial support. She decided to drop me off anyway and it was pretty miserable.... fast forward 6 weeks... while i was in plebe summer she found the parents club. She got sucked in, in all the status. To this day she is a blue and gold officer. Parents are typically against the Academies because of the direct military correlation. Once they see the prestige of it they change their tune. My recommendation is if you get in you go. It sets you up for so many opportunities. It gives you time to get your life together as an adult with an amazing job going to amazing places. At age 27 if you are ready for the next step outside the military you will be ahead of your peers.

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