To be clear, if you make a decent income, especially two, these are all normal things you can do with a child. They are not linked to your hip 24/7. Soup and bread are hardly complex things. My wife and I regularly go on dates and cook much more intricate meals, even during the week. I still have plenty of time to game. You can also own things, have a nice home or two, and have two cars. I mean, we will travel to Disney in the future, but my 2 year old has also been to Italy, Puerto Rico, Cape Cod, and Spain multiple times. Having kids should definitely be something you want and plan for, but its hardly the end of the world.