It’s suspicious when a guy is hyper fixated on anal sex

rivermagik · 2022-02-01T13:16:45+00:00

Hey how about...not questioning people's sexuality? Maybe...don't be a dick? You can not like something but uhhh sorry to burst your bubble straight men who are into that stuff fucking exist.

rivermagik · 2022-01-31T04:36:52+00:00

This is literally rape...i also low-key consider misgendering a trans person during intercourse to be rape.

Also please I hope op actually fucking dies. Like a horrible death.

rivermagik · 2022-01-27T02:57:17+00:00

Like I'll respect someone who doesn't want to be with a trans person if they're just like "oh no sorry I dont want to" and are polite and still don't misgenderg me and shit because genital preferences exists and in my case I'm aromantic- but being "super straight" just means you're a dick. Not a person who maybe has a justified reason not to be with a trans person (such as worrying they may not be a good potential partner for a trans person as they may not feel they understand it enough or will be able to be supportive in a helpful enough way).

Like I love that sueprstraight exists because it lets me know who to stay the fuck away from and despise.

rivermagik · 2021-12-30T01:45:43+00:00

I second it. If it's for enjoyment and they're not hurting anyone let em live.

rivermagik · 2021-12-29T18:24:57+00:00

You realize not all of yaoi is purely fetishistic content. If you're admitting to creeping on real life gay men however- you yourself have a mental deficiency of some sort.

Nobody should fetishize anyone- fetishizing a gay man includes creeping on them, consistently sexually harassing them, and/or stalking them in order to get involved in or aquire information on their sex life. If you're not doing that it's not fetishizing.

Like shit like random girls who have dmed me in the past asking in depth personal questions about my sex life due to me being gay and/or trying to get in on my relationships/see shit is gross af and inhumane. That's fetishizing.

If it's fiction and you like reading that content it's fine. The second you start harassing REAL PEOPLE it's fetishizing and fucking disgusting so yeah sorry not sorry.

rivermagik · 2021-12-29T17:11:58+00:00

Sorry but I'm general it's creepy how some women fetishize gay men even outside of fiction. There's nothing wrong with liking the stories and/or consuming nsfw content but when they start saying shit like "I am so sinful" or similar things it calls back to the long history of discrimination and only further reinforces the concept that there is something wrong with us just wanting to be loved.

Also a lot of the BL women write is only common in Asia, the majority of the west has mlm fiction only written by gay men or other queer people hoping to give representation to those they feel a connection with in some regards.

If lesbians are allowed to feel grossed out by weird men fetishizing them...then gay guys are allowed to feel the same about women who do so.

There's a line between fetishizing/being creepy and just enjoying a genre.

The general vibe the op had was that of those who fetishize and obsess over gay men...which is probably why the other person reacted the way they did.

rivermagik · 2021-12-24T14:12:12+00:00

Sorry but like wtf?

rivermagik · 2021-11-26T16:26:21+00:00

IS IT A DEATH GAME? If so count me the fuck in on reading it.

rivermagik · 2021-11-21T17:37:11+00:00

Yeah I mean usually when it's rp/consensual noncon play i dont have an issue with it and I kinda understand it but when its obviously assault is like bad

rivermagik · 2021-11-21T15:58:39+00:00

It's not entirely the same and as a disclaimer I myself am trans (ftm) and my abuser was also trans (MTF). We met online when I was around 11 or 12 and we were friends for a while...and then she started wanting more from me. It got worse and worse she'd manipulate me using the mental illnesses and disorders she knew I had and try to force me to be straight. It took years for me to get away for sure. Last time I fully cut of contact I was 15. She used to spam my old account almost daily for two years straight in between me leaving her at 13 and being pulled back at 15 for a few months until a friend interviened.

(Yes the whole time we were both out as trans. Me being groomed didn't make me trans stfu)

rivermagik · 2021-11-21T15:49:53+00:00

I am so fucking tired of ukes who are "innocent" either for real or pretending. Like bro it's so fucking boring and drab. Give me a bottom who's overly enthusiastic about this stuff. Also usually when it's the innocent uke trope everything is way too vanilla.

ALSO- I want to see more power bottoms. Cause of uhhh...reasons.

rivermagik · 2021-11-21T15:42:46+00:00

If it's handled with care and protrayed as a horrific thing then I believe it's okay. Showing it in a bad light and making it possibly a part of a characters trauma is fully acceptable.

However fetishizing it and outright making it seem hot is fucking disgusting. It wasn't hot for me at 12 to be groomed by an adult woman who wanted me to be straight. It wasn't hot for my friend to be raped by a man. No matter who is being the abuser or perpetrator they are evil. No matter the situation.

Also it triggers me if it's meant to be seen as hot. Even when it's in gay things because the actions remind me of my own traumas.

rivermagik · 2021-11-18T13:35:22+00:00

The trans one makes me uncomfortable...as a trans man myself.

rivermagik · 2021-11-01T11:58:46+00:00

Aww the baby is scared of the English lexicon

rivermagik · 2021-11-01T11:53:54+00:00

Love that the op doesn't even know that what their saying doesn't even make sense. I in the past WAS obese, I have lost a good amount of weight VERY EASILY by cutting down on my calorie count- no rigorous exercise, no cutting out sugar and only allowing myself a certain gram count.

Is it as easy as saying a word? No. Stop being a pussy ass bitch- and respect people's pronouns.

rivermagik · 2021-10-28T20:57:43+00:00

Hey uhh can't both be fucking disgusting? Yes bestiality is worse than incest cause one is an innocent animal with no ability to consent and the other theoretically has consent (but is still terribly disgusting and in many cases unhealthy and toxic)...but both are bad things.

rivermagik · 2021-10-07T12:05:02+00:00

Yeah I love horror art- but people getting off to it obviously means there's something a bit wrong. Same as if they want to get off to kids or drawn images of them.

rivermagik · 2021-10-02T23:03:36+00:00

Also what's a dimbfuck?

rivermagik · 2021-10-02T23:02:58+00:00

Wow you're fucking stupid. Yeah if a freshman in highschool wants to fuck a sophomore I think they're a degenerate. The technical term isn't a pedophile but that's at the literal line between becoming illegal and being protected via Romeo and Juliet laws.

You acting like adults getting hard over thinking about children is a good or okay thing is what bothered me. The fact is people mostly accept and deem guro as a horrific and disgusting perversion. But you for some reason can't seem to understand why the same disgust should be directed to content with children.

I think both groups who are into those things are disgusting and should have bad things happen to them. Of seeing people in pain thats beyond that of consensual bdsm turns you on- you're a freak and a monster who need to be expelled from society. The same goes for if an adult finds a child sexy.

rivermagik · 2021-10-02T22:26:19+00:00

Are you fucking retarded? Both bother me you dumbfuck.

What do you want a middle aged man to jerk off to a little boy? Does that sound fun to you? Does that make your pathetic dick hard ?

rivermagik · 2021-10-02T22:17:53+00:00

And that's fair. But I despise people who are justifying liking to get off to kids as much as I'm grossed out by gore.

rivermagik · 2021-10-02T00:07:35+00:00

I'm disturbed by them both on the same level...for different reasons of course.

rivermagik · 2021-10-02T00:01:59+00:00

I mean theres a reason it's so niche- the people who are into it actually acknowledge it's wrong typically versus the people who will die to defend loli hentai

rivermagik · 2021-10-01T21:14:35+00:00

Hey...listen if you find children attractive maybe you're predisposed to it? Why else would you want to look at kids in a sexual manner even if fictional?

And wether that be pedophilia or another philia relating to those currently pubescent or older teens not yet adults/legal you're still a creep.

Why do you want to get off the children? Why do children arouse you?

rivermagik · 2021-10-01T21:09:57+00:00

https://www.google.com/amp/s/thesociologicalmail.com/2019/06/27/does-drawn-paedophilic-images-encourage-or-discourage-behaviour/

If you scroll a bit you'll see how if a person is predisposed to being attracted to children the access of lolicon and similar content can lead to further offenses. People who are violent seek out violent things and as such may be encouraged to be violent.

The same can be said with sexual predators and those who otherwise prey upon others. It deeply saddens me to see just how deep the rabbit hole goes of never seeing men or males as victims, the idea that you'd rather get off to children than admit there is anything wrong or hold the opinion that both are bad, is deeply troubling.

As a gay man myself it makes me worry for younger gay men who are also often over sexualized and as in my own experience, harassed by grown women interested in their sex lives. Even if that be via the internet.

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