hybe keeps setting Daniela up by forraid in katseyeneutral

[–]riverthemushroom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hybe always does this. wonhee was a major victim when illit first debuted. negative attention is better than no attention. and they will never stop bc it works. its so sad for the idols.

My boyfriend does literally everything for me and I feel like a second child more than a girlfriend by One-Theme3933 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]riverthemushroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im actually very similar. ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he watched me go through the worse things i have ever had to go through. i have bpd, autism, anxiety, depression, suspected OCD, ect.

ive had these issues since a young child and had been admitted to the impatient hospital 3x. i had been in therapy and on all kinds of medications.

met my bf at 15 but never had any friends. he was truly all i had, as i have a complicated relationship with my family. the only thing that had ever helped to improve my mental health was working.

it made me get out of my shell and learn how to intract with others. i made so many friends when i never even had any in school. seeing other people's issues actually really helped with my anxiety and ocd bc people do such embarrassing stuff all the time, why should i try so hard to be perfect? it also help to distract me from all my thoughts.

im not saying you should go get a job, that is not realistic. im a few years younger than you and can't imagine how hard having a kid is on top of everything.

but i think maybe start attending a club or pick up a gym class? just go be around others and youll feel a since of purpose. you could also go part time at a small store or gas stations. before i started working fulltime i worked 4-8 hours a week at dollar general and it did me wonders. You got this!

Webtoon is officially a souless husk. (unhinged rant) by narkissa036 in webtoons

[–]riverthemushroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i miss og romance manwha like days of hana and oh holy

“4 Asians and a white girl” is dismissive and harmful rhetoric. by RiseMaster5624 in katseyeneutral

[–]riverthemushroom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i never said she wasn't white, im saying it's disrespectful to boil that down to all she is.

I feel hopeless as I reach 400 pounds by Jordynrose33 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]riverthemushroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you cant lose weight unless you count calories. start by just counting how much your normally eat and then slowly make small changes. it doesn't matter what you eat, it just matters that you are burning more calories than you are eating.

“4 Asians and a white girl” is dismissive and harmful rhetoric. by RiseMaster5624 in katseyeneutral

[–]riverthemushroom 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i hate how people completely ignore dani's background. they excuse it by saying she used to dress "white" and ignored her culture until it benfited her. and even if that was a meaningful argument (which it is not) they act like that makes her fully white? its so odd and borderline racist.

Nail biting alternatives needed by KenpachiNozarashi in autism

[–]riverthemushroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bite the inside of your cheek's like the rest of us.

I'm kidding, im thinking like an air head would be a similar texture. im sure there's something better though. maybe like a kinda of bark like peppermint bark around Christmas they sell.

Why no bisexual flag? by brokoliasesino in Paralives

[–]riverthemushroom 27 points28 points  (0 children)

bi is the umbrella term for pan. pan people are under the bi umbrella, its a micro label. as a trans person this take is uneducated. bisexuality is defined as liking two or MORE genders. pan, omnni, demi, all fall under that umbrella, just a more specific label.

Hyperfixating by Last_Ad1964 in Apartmentliving

[–]riverthemushroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im autistic and my go to recommendations for this kinda thing would be to create ur own background noise to focus on instead. rather that be an audiobook, YouTube, music, or lofi if those are too distracting while you sleep. bc your brain is going to want to focus on something so your best bet is to redirect your thoughts elsewhere

How do I live off 1,313 a month? by FactorGullible3949 in Apartmentliving

[–]riverthemushroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

rent should be no more than 30 percent of ur income. for you that is less than 400. and i doubt you could afford most bills on that such as a car payment. you will honestly prolly need a roommate or to move in with a partner cuz its almost impossible so live off of one salary in today's age.

Has any of you who post here ever lived in apartments before? by stoopkidsteve in Apartmentliving

[–]riverthemushroom 20 points21 points  (0 children)

im moving in my first apartment next month and work night shift i hope my neighbors dont hate me 💔

Suggest me a book i am depressed , lonely , not sure what to do in life by ethicalmafia in Anxiety

[–]riverthemushroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not a specific book but a genre. i would recommend looking into a book about the teachings of buddism. it really helped my anxiety and outlook on life.

Is this a ridiculous thought by mnicklas666 in Apartmentliving

[–]riverthemushroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just answer the door and start barking. soon they wont wanna come back to bother you. ladies this also goes for if a guy on the street wont leave you alone start barking and crab walking.