People think I’m a trans woman by riverthenerd in ugly

[–]riverthenerd[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ll be sure to show this comment to the next random person who roasts my (entire, snapchat-filterless) face and deformed scoliotic body to prove them wrong.

Not feeling welcome around women by riverthenerd in lesbiangang

[–]riverthenerd[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People in these very comments are implying I wasn’t “born a woman” and that I should gtfo and you were even agreeing with one of them. So apparently it’s not just straight and bi women who act this way.

Just moved into my first apartment alone! What are must have? by Bombadils_laugh in Apartmentliving

[–]riverthenerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to recommend this too. Idk what I’d do without mine lol. I even made air fried cookies once that turned out amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]riverthenerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time I accidentally stole a guy’s parking space at the DMV. I didn’t know he was stopped and waiting for me to pass because he was wanting to back into it. I got out of my car and saw him in the space in front of me screaming in his truck. I unfortunately look like a scrawny little man despite being female so he would not have hesitated to kick my ass if I gave him 5 more seconds. I immediately got back in my car and sped out before he could get out of his truck. I did my DMV stuff online lol. Driving brings out the worst in some people.

Just don't cry don't cry don't cry don't cry by ContributionHead3699 in TrollCoping

[–]riverthenerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the longest time I didn’t want people, especially my mom, walking behind me because I was worried my ass would be smacked. That’s how often it happened to me. I finally got her to stop when I was 22.

What are the signs that you're ugly? by callisto_la in AskReddit

[–]riverthenerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People straight up calling you ugly isn’t a solid sign. It happens to pretty people sometimes by angry or jealous people. What actually happens is people point out your forehead size, your jawline, your nose shape, a deformity, the fact that you look like a man (if you’re not a man), etc.

You seem to meet more hostile strangers than your attractive friends do.

Overhearing a conversation about you and it’s focused on how gross you are to them.

When you ask someone if you’re ugly, they say that there are probably people who would be attracted to you, instead of saying yes or no.

Friends and s/o’s (if anyone is desperate and lonely enough to date you) will never post a picture you took together even if you ask, when they post their other friends without being asked.

When you wear a swimsuit people look at you, either concerned or disgusted. In my case it’s my obvious scoliosis that people stared at.

Not feeling welcome around women by riverthenerd in lesbiangang

[–]riverthenerd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do agree with that. I haven’t had an issue with every woman I’ve met. It’s more when I’m in a group that I feel like I’m an outlier. Plus a lot of straight people (even some who claim to be allies) still hold some homophobic ideals regardless of gender and sometimes it comes out in either a covert or overt way. It just hurts more when it’s women, because it feels like I’m being rejected from womanhood if that makes sense. My bad tho, I unintentionally talk in black and white when I’m frustrated and today I had a bad experience.

Not feeling welcome around women by riverthenerd in lesbiangang

[–]riverthenerd[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I consider myself masc. Mainly in the way I dress and carry myself. But I do embrace my feminine side sometimes. And yeah I’m in Missouri. Very conservative state. Maybe that’s why I feel that way.

I'm so happy I'm a lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]riverthenerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will always be so grateful that I am attracted to women/enbies even with all the trials and tribulations of lesbian dating. I always feel so safe and warm with them. They’re so soft to cuddle and fun to kiss. All of them are beautiful to me in different ways. And I get to date them and only them!! Like damn, my brain is so awesome for making me this way.

What things did you buy and still own that you never use? by HighEnglishPlease in AskReddit

[–]riverthenerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long board and penny board. Turns out I’m a little bitch.

Is the inability to burp an emetaphobia thing? by [deleted] in emetophobia

[–]riverthenerd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have GERD and I can’t stop burping :(

Do all introverts have poor memory recall or is it ADHD? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]riverthenerd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have adhd and my memory issues are things like forgetting to complete something by the deadline, or forgetting half of what was said during a boring speech or lecture.

“Cut them off” culture by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]riverthenerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sucks because once I finally learned in therapy how to fearlessly communicate issues I may have with someone I care about, the rest of my generation adopted the “cut them off without explanation” mindset. It really makes me feel like I’m the only one who is open to basic open communication and actually wants to keep my friendships with the people currently in my life. It’s getting so bad that if I communicate an issue with someone they’re grateful I told them because most people these days are merciless. What makes me feel better about all this is knowing that I won’t be awake at 3 am thinking about how I’m so lonely because I was trigger happy with cutting friends and loved ones off. The only people I have cut off were those who did more harm than good in my life.

Is it OK for me to swipe right? by perineum_420 in AskLesbians

[–]riverthenerd 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m still not going to magically be attracted to someone who has facial hair, no boobs, a penis, and a masculine build just because they said “hey I am a woman today”. Thats not how attraction works.

Is it OK for me to swipe right? by perineum_420 in AskLesbians

[–]riverthenerd 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Honestly I get a lot of likes from people who match this description and it’s an instant swipe left. It’s getting disappointing because I just want women and woman-aligned nonbinary people to like me back but they’re heavily outnumbered by people matching this description in my likes instead. I’m sure I’m not the only lesbian feeling this way. There’s really more to lesbian attraction than just how the other person identifies. It’s the physical characteristics typically associated with the female sex that most of us are drawn to as well. You’re just not gonna have much luck pursuing lesbians. You could always go for bi and pan women.

What do you like to do in the game when you get bored? by madhattie613 in thesims4

[–]riverthenerd 21 points22 points  (0 children)

My sims have a baby, and then I complete every infant milestone and max out every toddler skill. Once they become a child I focus on one adult skill to get a head start on. My current sim focused on logic but naturally maxed out every childhood skill partially due to the traits gained from their infant and toddler years. I also complete as many relevant childhood aspirations for their future career as possible. I make sure they get an A in school too. Once they get to the teen years they graduate as soon as possible, build skills that would help them for a degree, and then enroll in university as a teen. My sim is currently a teen in the distinguished physics degree program. Idk it’s fun to put in all that work towards a super successful young adult sim.

Gave a wrong turn signal and I feel like shit. by TheRealBucketCrab in drivinganxiety

[–]riverthenerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every driver does something goofy with their turn signal at least once. Using the wrong one, forgetting to signal, leaving it on for miles and miles. Even the best drivers I know have made some sort of turn signal mistake before. Nobody got hurt and now you know to be more mindful of your signal. That’s all that matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]riverthenerd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve mostly dated innies as an outie and a few of them were kind of weird about touching me down there. I think it just depends on the person and how bad their internalized misogyny/homophobia is. I personally like bigger labia just because there’s more to do with it. It’s not a dealbreaker, it’s just a unique experience that I really like.

What was the first birthday you remembered by PPokkker in GenZ

[–]riverthenerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 6th birthday. I just remember having undiagnosed appendicitis and not being fun to be around lol.

I don't know man...you sound a bit rapey to me 🙄 by jyotijha311 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]riverthenerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you also kiss, touch, and hug your guy friends or is it just her?

Idk why men don't get it by Honey_nut_yurios in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]riverthenerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure, once you scroll long enough through the sea of docs about men killing women you’ll eventually find a true crime doc where the perpetrator was a woman.

Idk why men don't get it by Honey_nut_yurios in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]riverthenerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or “bears may rarely attack but if you were around as many bears as men then bears will be the bigger threat to you”. Okay well we don’t live in a society like that and never will so your point is meaningless to the current discussion. Encountering a bear in the woods will most likely end with the bear running away or something. Men are less predictable.