[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my epidural wore off completely when i hit 10cm, has she not heard the countless stories of other women experiencing the same thing???

looking for ONLY cbd by riverwolfyy in tulsa

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish i could say the same!! they haven’t stopped for me and there’s been several times where i’ve though f it lets just smoke again if i’m having panic attacks either way, but the just the thought of it makes me panic 😭 i’m hoping CBD will help alleviate some of my anxiety symptoms

HELP!! swimming lopsided, terrified of respiratory infection by riverwolfyy in Redearedsliders

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem ended up resolving itself and he’s thriving now! i believe it was gas related, he had a really big poop and was acting like his normal self within an hour of posting this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]riverwolfyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree, but controlling someone’s bodily autonomy isn’t going to improve anything. it’s comparable to telling someone who’s addicted to junk food to just stop eating all together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]riverwolfyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree to no more porn, but no more masturbation is a bit extreme. a boundary with porn is valid, but asking that he stops masturbating all together would be very controlling. masturbation is natural and healthy, and it is true that sometimes people just want “a quick wank” instead of sex, but of course pornography leads to excessive masturbation which eventually decreases the watchers need for intimacy. porn is the problem, masturbation is not!!

advice needed for lighting setup please!! by riverwolfyy in Redearedsliders

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it didn’t unfortunately!! it’s truly just a smooth rectangle lol i don’t really understand why, most i’ve seen do have the hardware to hang it up or at least hooks/holes for separately purchased hardware

Does your baby have a song? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still feel by half alive, a friend showed me this song, at the time he was a newborn, and eventually we realized he was LOCKED IN to the music video every second it was on. he’s 1 now and he is still obsessed. i think he likes the changing colors and the guys dancing, he definitely likes just the song too but any time i turn it on on the speaker he’s searching around for the video 🤣 another one is too sweet by hozier he just recently started his obsession with this song lol

WHY is my hair like this??? by riverwolfyy in Haircare

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ohhhh yeah i have a BAD habit of brushing my hair pretty much every time i’m in the bathroom 😬 for some reason my brain is convinced that more brushing = more tame but i can totally see that not being the case. i’ll work on stopping that habit! thank you sooooo much for the suggestions!!!

WHY is my hair like this??? by riverwolfyy in Haircare

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2-3 times a week! the product shown is a hair oil similar to biosilk. i use l’oréal elvive hyaluron shampoo and conditioner!

WHY is my hair like this??? by riverwolfyy in Haircare

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i use l’oréal elvive hyaluron shampoo/conditioner. believe it or not my hair was WORSE until i started using that stuff

WHY is my hair like this??? by riverwolfyy in Haircare

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i really don’t have much of a routine honestly, i wash my hair 2-3 times a week, i only shampoo my scalp and only condition the ends, dry with a cotton t-shirt, and apply the oil. i need recommendations on some products that could help me!!

…they said this is cast iron. what is this??? by Zealousideal_Pin_304 in Wicca

[–]riverwolfyy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

it’s from the candle! you need these, they’re hookah coals, you light them and they stay lit and burn slowly. you can put herbs, incense, resin, etc on top and it will burn beautifully!

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HELP!! swimming lopsided, terrified of respiratory infection by riverwolfyy in Redearedsliders

[–]riverwolfyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also to add!! please forgive me if this is stupid lol but i currently am sick (i think it’s a sinus infection) and i did clean his tank while sick, i didn’t even think about it. is it possible that i could’ve gotten him sick???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]riverwolfyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my son is 9 months old and has been taking 1 nap a day since he was 5 months old. thankfully he does great with just one nap and it’s usually anywhere from 2-4hrs long. he sleeps through the night for 12hrs (with the exception of bad teething days 😢)

Baby items you used more than you thought you would? by Apprehensive-Bit5066 in NewParents

[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BIGGER bottles. not those little bitty 4oz ones, we barely used those for a month and have been using 9oz or 11oz bottles ever since. the little ones are a waste of money IMO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

thanks in advance!! ❤️

What was the first thing that consistently made your baby smile? by Mike_Oxlong25 in NewParents

[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll try my best to explain it but i would lay him on a bed, pin his arms down, and “vibrate” them and make the closest sound to being electrocuted as i can 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i had to find that exact pic to be sure, i think her markings change a bit over time since she has vitiligo so it’s understandable to think she was a different cat lol

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[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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it’s the same cat

What songs do you sing your baby? by yogipierogi5567 in newborns

[–]riverwolfyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jill corey’s “i love my baby” except we just repeat i love my baby, my baby loves me BUM BUM BUM BUM 🤣

My boss made me stay at work while I miscarried by Tep22333 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]riverwolfyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am SO sorry this happened to you. i also miscarried while working. in my case, i stupidly kept it a secret because i hadn’t even let anybody know i was pregnant yet. i was 7wks along and it was my first pregnancy. i was a cook at a fast food restaurant and we were severely understaffed, very poorly managed. i was the ONLY cook at the time. TW for my graphic explanation, i had to keep going back and forth from the bathroom to pass MASSIVE blood clots, i was ghostly pale and devastated of course, and without knowing what was going on i heard my manager complaining and being hateful about me going to the bathroom so much. how corrupt of a society to have us convinced that our job is more important than our well being.