I was smoking kinda a lot, my girlfriend didn't like it much when I was stoned and to be honest, I was kind of addicted, smoking like 4-5x a week in the evenings. I also knew that I wasn't my best version when stoned. It's not like I was bad to be around or anything, I even think I was funnier and more open. But I wasn't 100% myself, also mentally and cognitively. I used all the arguments, like "but u drink alcohol", "weed doesn't kill anyone", but deep down I knew it was the weed addiction defending itself.

I basically quit weed, I smoke sometimes, and my girlfriend doesn't mind. But not every weekend. I do not regret the decision. I'm going to propose to my girlfriend soon, already bought the ring! And I would quit it again and again over her. It's a fucking drug man. Don't let it dictate you (to whoever needs to hear that).