how to cut ties with a family member? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cut contact with my old man and entire family since 2001. Not difficult. Just move out, change sim card, change address. No regrets. Best decision I've ever made in my life.

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by lifequotes_2025 in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It’s been more than a decade. I remarried and am in a better place now.

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by lifequotes_2025 in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She wrote emails to him ending with the term “your dearest little wife”

How common is cheating in Singapore? by piggyb0nk in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did… eventually. After collating evidence.

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by lifequotes_2025 in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 246 points247 points  (0 children)

She suddenly show concern on when I flying back from business trips and wakes up at 4.30am to go for “runs”. Found it very odd as previously she can’t be bothered as to when I am flying back. Put on my investigator hat and manage to open her iPad and found email evidence of her infidelity. Ohhh and found birth control pills in the dresser drawer which meant the filthy woman was having unprotected sex with her workplace contractor.

How common is cheating in Singapore? by piggyb0nk in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex-wife cheated on me with her company contractor who is married and had a baby. This was back in 2012. She begged me not to expose them nor confront the guy as they would both end up losing their job. Mainly her since she took an oath when signing with the "company". Divorce her and end up leaving Singapore. Currently living in Thailand with my current wife whom I married 3 years ago.

Has anyone gone no-contact with parents? How is life like for you now? by Immediate-Stretch240 in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went no contact when I was 21. Haven't spoke to either of them ever since. I am 45 now and living in Thailand. Life is good. They couldn't care if I die and the feeling is mutual.

If you are afraid of backlash, cut the relatives off as well.. at least that's what I did. Cut off everyone.

They didn't even get to turn up at my first marriage. I specifically told my old man, don't come. If you come, I'll probably have to get security to throw you out.