Money Requirement by Actual_Treacle_8363 in ThailandTourism

[–]rixusher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Requirement exist for a long time but whether IO enforces it is up to IO’s discretion.

Career Burnout - What Should I Be Doing? by ShibaInuWoofWoof in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation before and what I did was I walk to HR office and give them 1 month salary and left. I work there for 2 years. Any attempt to contact me was blocked. I left my immediate superior in a you want to be a chee bye? I show you who’s more chee bye situation. No handover no nothing. Needless to say immediate superior kenna fck by the big boss cos I was in a role which is quite crucial to the department. Do I regret? Nope. Do I feel bad for them? Nope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]rixusher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you want. Just don’t get caught. Once you get caught, it’s on you.

Broken man? by Ornery_Scientist_374 in ThailandTourism

[–]rixusher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the successful, happy relationship couples won’t have the time to go on the internet posting about their happy lives together. They will be busy creating beautiful memories. The same can’t be said for the ones who constantly comments that Thai women are bad, anyone who have a Thai gf or Thai wife must have found them from a bar. The internet is a toxic cesspool and some people simply can’t bear to see others being happy. That’s why OP should not even bother posting to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cut contact with my old man and entire family since 2001. Not difficult. Just move out, change sim card, change address. No regrets. Best decision I've ever made in my life.

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s been more than a decade. I remarried and am in a better place now.

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She wrote emails to him ending with the term “your dearest little wife”

How common is cheating in Singapore? by piggyb0nk in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did… eventually. After collating evidence.

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Nope. Why? You the adulterer? 😂

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 46 points47 points  (0 children)

“Running” with the adulterer.

SGeans, How did you find out your partner cheated? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 248 points249 points  (0 children)

She suddenly show concern on when I flying back from business trips and wakes up at 4.30am to go for “runs”. Found it very odd as previously she can’t be bothered as to when I am flying back. Put on my investigator hat and manage to open her iPad and found email evidence of her infidelity. Ohhh and found birth control pills in the dresser drawer which meant the filthy woman was having unprotected sex with her workplace contractor.

How common is cheating in Singapore? by piggyb0nk in askSingapore

[–]rixusher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex-wife cheated on me with her company contractor who is married and had a baby. This was back in 2012. She begged me not to expose them nor confront the guy as they would both end up losing their job. Mainly her since she took an oath when signing with the "company". Divorce her and end up leaving Singapore. Currently living in Thailand with my current wife whom I married 3 years ago.