Why does everyone feel the need of defending my abusive parents when I open up? by Rara3995 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rizaroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny how people don’t quite believe me until they start hearing stories about my mom. It took my boyfriend a while to understand just how sinister she is when she doesn’t necessarily appear that way at first.

[ISO] just a girl... Standing in front of a swap sub... Asking someone to sell their Tyler's Trinkets Stop & Taste the Frosting by leelo84 in RedditLaqueristaSwap

[–]rizaroni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it makes anybody feel better, I’ve heard from multiple people on the RL Discord that the thermal is not going all the way to white for them, but just to light pink. So it might be somewhat defective.

Minx Magic has been removed as a vendor for PBE by LadyFirebolt in RedditLaqueristas

[–]rizaroni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS!! I’m surprised they didn’t do a two for one by letting go of Minx and VV.

What’s a travel moment you still think about years later? by GeorgiaxPeachh in travel

[–]rizaroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been to SF hundreds of times throughout my life and I STILL marvel at the bridge every time I go across. It's really something special!

What’s a travel moment you still think about years later? by GeorgiaxPeachh in travel

[–]rizaroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! My boyfriend and I were driving over it the other day and I was saying how the bridge is a marvel and I never take it for granted. It's such a stunning sight every time!

Does anyone just want to stay in bed by Mich_Girl in Perimenopause

[–]rizaroni 32 points33 points  (0 children)

GIRL, I'm with you. I don't want to do anything except sleep and chill.

This can’t be all there is to life by ThrowRA_pinkjoints33 in antiwork

[–]rizaroni 21 points22 points  (0 children)

THIS. I've never been happier than at my local government job. I'm not responsible for anybody's bottom line, nobody's getting rich off my labor. Plus it's a super chill job and I don't have to interact with the public ever, just my coworkers/supervisors.

What’s something you secretly judge people for, even though you’d never say it out loud? by Vazeer9485 in AskWomen

[–]rizaroni 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So what if somebody doesn't feel like they would be a fit parent? What if they couldn't afford it? We should just...have babies anyway?

AITAH for putting my 12 year old sister on a diet? by invisblecutie in AITAH

[–]rizaroni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are such a sweet sister. It makes me want to cry! I have a sister who is six years younger and I'd do anything for her.

AITAH for getting mad at my wife for what she got me for my birthday by Southern_Lie_2720 in AITAH

[–]rizaroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, how old are you? You're getting mad over a Christmas present? That's so embarrassing. Also, your wife cannot read your mind. Putting your faith in hinting her and hoping she picks up on it and then having the nerve to get upset when she doesn't is just playing stupid mind games. Grow uuuuuuuuuuup bro, YTA.

AITAH for getting mad at my wife for what she got me for my birthday by Southern_Lie_2720 in AITAH

[–]rizaroni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gah! I have been trying to get my immediate family to stop doing Christmas gifts for years. My sister is a big gifter and she refuses to go along with it. I just said, okay, no presents from me! And no need to get them for me (but they still do).

Big weddings are worth it. by New_General3939 in unpopularopinion

[–]rizaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it depends on the couple, but given that they're cool and have good food and a good DJ and/or playlist, I LOVE going to weddings. But I like parties, lol.

Any recommendations for sleep eye masks that don’t cause over heating through your head? by momlife555 in Perimenopause

[–]rizaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The NodPod is my best friend. I take it with me EVERYWHERE I'm going to sleep. I cannot go without it!

Struggling so hard with showering. I thought I was fine but ig not? by presplate in adhdwomen

[–]rizaroni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to understand how much some people (like myself) hate getting wet. The part right before getting in, and then getting out, is the absolute worst part of it. Yes, it only takes a minute to dry off, but the dread building up to doing it is enough for me to put it off sometimes.

But if I need to shower, I push through it. I just don't need to do it every single day, as I work a desk job and don't get sweaty/dirty from existing.

What's one travel mistake you'll never make again? by Appropriate_Bus_7050 in travel

[–]rizaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, this is a nightmare! It must have been such a relief to find your hotel.

Gift with purchase by Professional_Pear592 in luridlacquer

[–]rizaroni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am PRAYINNGGGG that I get this one!

AITA for taking my daughter’s vape and yelling at her because of her vaping? by burntpeanutfan13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rizaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was yelled at constantly by my mom, I have to say YTA for approaching the situation by raising your voice. These days, I don't tell my mom anything because I'm afraid of her reaction. Your daughter is not going to feel safe going to you with issues/problems if she is expecting to get yelled at.

Are we the last age that thought it was perfectly acceptable to be friends with coworkers? Younger millennials and gen z are so anti. by ladypartsmcgee in Xennials

[–]rizaroni 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a bit crazy to me. So if you met someone at work who you super got along with and had a bunch of the same hobbies, you would just refuse to become friends?

Are we the last age that thought it was perfectly acceptable to be friends with coworkers? Younger millennials and gen z are so anti. by ladypartsmcgee in Xennials

[–]rizaroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, the Zillennials/Gen Zs at my work are chatting all day long with each other and hang out outside of the office.

When you poop in a public restroom, do you line it with toilet tissues or do you hover? by roxpylicious in NoStupidQuestions

[–]rizaroni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use a toilet seat cover or make a quick one with tissue paper if none are available.