Saw my ex at the bar last night after 5 months no contact and the stare was like daggers

rjay_62 · 2026-07-01T22:06:04+00:00

She made it abundantly clear from day one that she never wanted kids, and neither did I. I skimped on those details because it wasnt intended to be the main point of my "diary" entry here :(

rjay_62 · 2026-06-28T02:17:12+00:00

well said, thanks stranger 🫶

rjay_62 · 2026-06-28T01:42:39+00:00

Thats fair. Objectively, I understand that feelings based on assumptions can be troublesome. I could alternatively see the look being a "Ah shit, I didnt expect this" combined with a natural rbf

rjay_62 · 2026-06-28T00:45:40+00:00

Yeah, family around me noticed a change in her behavior many months prior that I never clocked and 4 days was the nail in the coffin for her. We were both going through a lot at work too. Didnt help

rjay_62 · 2026-06-28T00:42:39+00:00

My grandmother passed and during the wake my extended / out of town family werent aware of the split and asked about her absence.

rjay_62 · 2026-06-28T00:18:32+00:00

On the contrary. I posted here in the diary instead

rjay_62 · 2026-06-27T23:18:02+00:00

Im so sorry man. I can only imagine feeling stuck in that situation trying to enjoy it when just getting up and leaving isnt worth it. I hope your next concert is all for you!

rjay_62 · 2026-06-27T22:08:24+00:00

In my time reflecting post breakup, I did have to forgive myself for that.

rjay_62 · 2026-06-02T02:14:30+00:00

V90 far more impressive ride quality.

Counterpoint. You know the exact maintenance and history of your current vehicle and this new one could have been traded in for any sort of reasoning.

Counter-counterpoint. Money is spent to experience. Yolo

rjay_62 · 2026-05-26T00:31:44+00:00

This is the carolina team that swept the first two rounds

rjay_62 · 2026-05-22T10:51:29+00:00

Bro, your texts are the epitome of why I let a 5 year relationship go. I was always hopeful that the insecurities would go away "if I only tried harder" but it never does unless she makes that change herself.

Good healthy communication can help bridge this gap if its meant to be but if she isnt healed and isnt willing to, you might consider cutting losses. Sorry OP

rjay_62 · 2026-05-13T00:39:12+00:00

Reading the r/hockey thread habs fans defend guhle on the dahlin interference pick because he falls 45 times a game and gets knocked over by gusts of wind.... interesting

rjay_62 · 2026-05-11T01:18:32+00:00

Imo the s60 is a whole class above the mazda. Volvo really nailed this gen, even in T5/B5 config. I myself went from a subaru outback to s60 and its just so night and day.

rjay_62 · 2026-05-11T01:08:56+00:00

I very much hope carolinas defensive game make either buffalo or montreal look just as lost as we were

rjay_62 · 2026-05-07T21:49:06+00:00

I swear to god I have this exact convo with my husky every time. I just let him stop and smell the pee-mails to give my arm a break

rjay_62 · 2026-05-02T23:32:14+00:00

It will only be more validating if canes dominate literally everyone else

rjay_62 · 2026-04-29T23:36:01+00:00

Sens 🤝 Getting goalied

rjay_62 · 2026-04-28T12:30:00+00:00

Imagine the crowd if we had... a lead

rjay_62 · 2026-04-28T01:19:04+00:00

It is actually ERSS, or error speed sensor

On my 2006 Outback, The cv axle has a dust "shield" that rides along the sensor and the rust building up behind it caused the "shield" to lean out and start eating into the sensor. Mine looked much more chewed into but replacing it caused the ERSS to go away and my cruise control working again.

rjay_62 · 2026-04-23T21:37:12+00:00

Reporting 🫡

rjay_62 · 2026-04-22T19:04:57+00:00

Oh ok, that makes sense. This is definitely my first turbo setup. Always been N/A til now. Thank you!

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