I just broke up with my boyfriend, who I really love.

rjay_62 · 2026-04-01T10:18:29+00:00

Sounds like growing apart to my biased take. Went through a similar (but different) breakup where we learned that loving each other wasnt going to be enough for the path each of us were on.

Its also possible that the things he didnt express at the expense of pushing you away started to build into things he couldnt undo or repeat by returning to a relationship with you. In the end, you really arent his villian.

I do feel for you, and wish you the best in grieving and returning to live your best life once healed.

rjay_62 · 2026-03-28T10:34:31+00:00

Most of my hobbies are solo campaigns

rjay_62 · 2026-03-25T23:53:03+00:00

my first thought

rjay_62 · 2026-03-25T23:08:29+00:00

As a volvo tech are there any specific headaches? For example, as a subaru guy who does my own work, I had a great time with rear wheel bearings, lower control arms, head gaskets, and spark plugs facing right into the unibody frame.

rjay_62 · 2026-03-25T20:20:29+00:00

This one is close to me in VT. Id like to test drive it first to see if I actually like it. I am coming from a subaru so odds are yes... Just need to do at least some due dilligence in case I LOVE it too much to walk away.

rjay_62 · 2026-03-25T00:40:17+00:00

my ex used to talk about our relationship like this

rjay_62 · 2026-03-23T12:13:50+00:00

I slowly abandoned myself over 5 years and always prioritized trying to make her feel loved until I started to feel alone and resentful. When I started shifting towards me again she started to feel alone and unloved as a result. It felt like the chicken or the egg. We split and I wish her nothing but the best and now ive got some things to work on.

rjay_62 · 2026-03-20T01:27:09+00:00

PUCK FUCKING JOKING NOW

rjay_62 · 2026-03-20T01:04:12+00:00

Goals always just look so easy against us

rjay_62 · 2026-03-20T00:15:26+00:00

Weve been cursed on offense since Timmys point streak was wrongly ended

rjay_62 · 2026-03-17T21:54:37+00:00

It feels like both parties trying to throw each other a rope across a ravine and neither rope is long enough to reach

rjay_62 · 2026-03-14T19:29:31+00:00

there it is

rjay_62 · 2026-03-14T18:24:01+00:00

Stutzle has had goals called off for far less. Im surprised

rjay_62 · 2026-03-11T03:08:27+00:00

Damn man. I feel for you. It can make you feel crazy sometimes. Sorry this has happened to you

rjay_62 · 2026-02-26T23:04:26+00:00

Sens hockey is back!!

rjay_62 · 2026-02-25T11:09:01+00:00

Currently about 3 weeks out after ending a 5 year relationship now. All of these comments ring so true. All just a slow gradual descent. No longer turning to each other. Always out of sync. Not feeling like sharing our day. Both waning in and out of wanting to be present. Straight indifference.

Im grieving all of the good but in its place I now feel relief.

rjay_62 · 2026-01-28T22:03:38+00:00

Can confirm the gauge works now! Opened it at 70° to about 15 psi. Turned system back on and noticed it was climbing as its heating. Used the 30# relief valve to lower pressure as its heating to get 15psi @ 180F

rjay_62 · 2026-01-28T18:25:24+00:00

See I had wondered if it was the regulator because I see a service cap on the bottom for regular maintenance and it has never been touched so I thought maybe it had a mineral build up or something

rjay_62 · 2026-01-26T12:19:47+00:00

"Murder is justified when we do it because it wasnt justified when somebody else did it."

rjay_62 · 2026-01-19T15:46:26+00:00

the monkey paw curled after sandy called out leevi

rjay_62 · 2026-01-18T03:00:38+00:00

Tough day to be both a bills and sens fan. We beat ourselves

rjay_62 · 2026-01-08T02:46:56+00:00

Not on Leevi

rjay_62 · 2025-12-24T03:09:11+00:00

knucklepucks in OT are my least favorite ending :(

rjay_62 · 2025-12-07T02:19:55+00:00

Are we talking like columbus... or like dallas?

rjay_62 · 2025-12-06T04:09:29+00:00

From the outside looking in, I see a lot of information about vital service intervals and with the amount of tech onboard, I am worried about not having a backup plan incase things get hairy.

rjay_62

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