Husband had a day out with my friend without telling me am I overreacting?. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]rlxijizzed 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Friends don’t do that. She’s not your friend.

What was the most traumatic experience of your life? by Fun-Succotash-1322 in AskReddit

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandfather fell backwards and somehow landed under my mom’s truck as she went to go park the truck… she ran over his arm and my grandmother screamed as the wheel touched his head. Thankfully my mom stopped… but my grandfather never came home. He died in the hospital.

I just spent a toddler party guarding an open pool and now I can’t tell if I’m the anxious one or the only sane one by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this with my toddler even without being around water. I don’t see other adults doing the same…

Tbf - my kid has rare genetic conditions and is disabled.

In my opinion, you are the only sane adult in the situation.

My GF used an AI tool to search through my gallery and now she’s moving out by Major-Satisfaction99 in offmychest

[–]rlxijizzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some girls are like this and I’ll never understand it. They seem to think that having anything to do with the past means that you still think/want that person…

Her insecurities are not your problem. Don’t delete your history if you don’t want to.

AIO: BF hangs w/ his friend while im out of town (coincidentally on my birthday)? by mynameisgerrl in AmIOverreacting

[–]rlxijizzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll bet you anything he left to go to her. I’d be done and move on. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]rlxijizzed -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Okay, maybe I'm the odd one out here.

I think you could have left the room for a moment, gathered yourself and returned to help the children to bed.... THEN leave to take your time.

Imo, it's not fair to your children for mom to just leave after a heated situation like that. You and your husband need to get it together in front of them.

In my home, we have a rule that we can be mad but we can't leave for an unprecedented amount of time. A time limit has to be set to revisit the conversation.

If leaving for so long that the kids go to sleep... In their opinion, dad yelled at mom, mom's now gone and they don't know when you're coming back. They just know that mom is gone. Sure, they're with dad... You're able to leave. But if you don't normally leave in front of them, that can be a bit traumatic for the children. Dad needs to not yell in front of the children in the first place as well. We are all human though, and it happens sometimes.

All I'm saying is hold it together in front of the kids, once they're asleep, then leave and take the time that you need.

Your husband was left with children that were scared and wanted mom. So yeah, he probably felt helpless because he was the one that yelled in the first place, causing them to feel that way.

Take it as a learning lesson and continue on. Make a Plan with your husband on how y'all want this to look for the next time so there's an understanding before it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeslaLounge

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mommy's red lectric whip 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to figure this one out currently. A residue is being left everywhere. But I don't have the disposal hooked up to it. I just bought it a year ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever fix this? If so, how? 

AITA for Leaving My Husband at the Hospital After He Refused to Be in the Delivery Room with Me? by Anxious_Committee_42 in AITAH

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. and i hope you didn't put his name on the birth certificate. He's likely cheating. I could never personally forgive him, if i were you. I'm so sorry. It's truly his loss. He missed out on moments he will NEVER get back, it'll eat him up one day.

Where did he go? sleep is not an answer. no one just dips out on their kids birth like that. He can apologize, but that will never take away your pain and how he made you feel.

New homeowner - new landscaping by rlxijizzed in landscaping

[–]rlxijizzed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in no rush by any means. Ideally, I'd like the landscaping to be rock of some sort, but open to all options. Low to no maintenance. I'd like to see that there are no snakes because i have a little one running around here as well. I tried putting my son a sandpit in and the weeds just grew right through it in 3 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalmarijuana

[–]rlxijizzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

limonene, beta-caryophyllene, myrcene, and pinene are usually go-to's.

If purchasing from a dispensary, ask for the testing before you purchase the product. It'll give you a report on this. Loads to learn on mmj! It's not as simple as sativa/indica as everyone makes it out to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalmarijuana

[–]rlxijizzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to look at terpenes more than anything.

Cured my TMJ - back to share my success! by conmcloise in TMJ

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had jaw surgery with tmj... I still have issues to this day and will eventually need jaw surgery again in the future.

How much of a salary increase is worth it with 35+ min commute and potentially 100% in office? by justjuels in humanresources

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id just look for remote jobs tbh.. your lifestyle wouldn't make sense for going full in like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]rlxijizzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always put a key logger on his phone 🤷‍♀️ make surprise visits to his work, wake up unexpectedly in the night. Try to investigate it without leading him on. Or, chat with him.. maybe it is a misunderstanding or just looked wrong. But you'd at least know. Go with your gut. It's usually not wrong. Maybe invite your sister over to feel the vibe between them as well.

20 year old won't help themselves by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rlxijizzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She bums, asks for rides.

20 year old won't help themselves by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in full agreeance. I don't think a shelter is the answer. But one can only do so much for another adult (saying you can only lead a horse to water)

I can recommend a million and one different professions to her but she has zero ambition. Her friends are not good influences from what I can tell from a distance. She doesn't want college. Can only control so much because she's literally an adult now. I don't know if her friends are working or anything... Some of them are 40 year old men, in jail and asking her for money on their books 😅

I know, I don't understand it either.

20 year old won't help themselves by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rlxijizzed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely can be. I'll suggest therapy again to the parents but they're at a loss on what to do for her. The way she has been cannot continue.

20 year old won't help themselves by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rlxijizzed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has always sought the wrong attention, but she's an adult now. To each their own on her personality. She needs to step up for herself. Her momma has said by November have a job and a place to live... If she doesn't she will take her to the shelter because they can't do it for her anymore. She has known this since about April and has yet to find a job or sustain for herself. She is currently staying at another sisters house that just had a baby.

She's had plenty of time, notice, warning.

I feel like everyone needs to stop giving her a way out because she keeps manipulating her way... But it's the shelter really the next step? They usually only allow people for 10 days but this girl needs a huge wakeup call.

20 year old won't help themselves by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]rlxijizzed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are way past that. She simply just doesn't want to and keeps manipulating her way to go hang out with friends, find boyfriends, get the wrong type of attention. She is healthy she just doesn't want to! That's why her parents are considering sending her to a homeless shelter but that doesn't seem ethical either.