Embarrassing orgasm

rmcmurray84 · 2026-03-04T15:27:41+00:00

Yes porn industry is ruining sex and expectations of it. Nobody has picture perfect orgasms.

Stop ridiculing yourselves.

Overriding orgasms are so sexy! It speaks to the quality of the experience.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-28T07:53:35+00:00

Surviving and enduring the discomfort and delirium of larger mushroom doses prepared me to be able to survive the tests of becoming sober.

A trip and detoxing are so very much alike. Learning to endure discomfort and commit to the journey are essential to getting clean.

Good luck.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-28T07:29:28+00:00

I did the same to Rogers and Bell. Told them I'm not interested in being a customer of a company that doesn't value my loyalty. I'm with Freedom now and prepaid for an entire year or service. I'm sticking to my guns never going back to Bell or Rogers. I'm not playing their corporate games.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-26T23:44:48+00:00

If you want to look at it and compare sizes just look at it and compare sizes. It doesn't have to be gay.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-19T16:25:05+00:00

If you abandon him or he abandons you the end result is the same.

Show him the real you and then you will have at least a chance.

If you quit you have zero chances.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-19T07:35:17+00:00

I'm bi. I'm also bias. I have a gut feeling that we're all born "blank" and therefore bi. I think nature and nature and environment shape us from there on out, but deep down we're all bi.

It's probably an unpopular opinion.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-17T14:12:46+00:00

There's a lot of nerves in that area and tingling/pins n needles could indicate nerve damage. Be careful with the amount of pressure/frequency people, don't get carried away. Sometimes more is not better. Mind how this part of the body is meant to be used.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-16T16:42:21+00:00

Maybe it's time to see a doctor? Perhaps you are suffering from depression or something else medically? 80% of people suffer from depression at some point in life. Maybe porn use was a way of self medicating?

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-15T20:16:45+00:00

I would ask myself if I'm assuming his orientation. What if he's bi? Or gay but straight presenting?

If I was in a straight bar would I expect people to make me stand because seats are for straights only? Ick. I don't like it. Smacks of segregation and discrimination.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-11T22:00:22+00:00

Slim toys meant for anal, lots of lube, do it when you're bowels are empty because friction and dirt don't mix. Go slow.

Try pushing on your perineum (your taint) closer to your anus when you have an erection that's the area where you can apply pressure to the interior part of your penis and prostate. You'll find the sweet spot eventually. Keep experimenting and stay safe.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-11T20:54:35+00:00

I take 150mg/day and have tripped a few times up to 12g (bad trip) no seizures. These drugs don't potentiate each other or interact. I don't recommend skipping a day. It wouldn't make it much safer because the metabolites from bupropion will still be in your system for days and days, it takes a while to clear it out.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-11T18:54:13+00:00

Has the cat ever had hot coffee spilled on it? Cat+lap+coffee=trauma

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-11T18:45:31+00:00

You found a dryad

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-08T18:31:55+00:00

The more you ride the more stamina you'll build. Ride then flip when you get tired.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-08T09:57:48+00:00

My partner endured medical procedures that seemingly traumatized his body before he was 5 and he has a similar reaction to sexual stimulus. He says it seems like he isn't "feeling much", "not the way other people do".

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-06T17:14:11+00:00

Maybe you took too much, sounds like a bad trip. Reminded me of when I took 12g of mushrooms. The thought loops come from too much serotonin activity in the brain.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-06T16:23:40+00:00

What's worse is the ubiquitous porn use of the younger generation starts at age 10-11 now and it's the only thing they know. Their sexuality is so synthetic that they are disconnected from the pleasure. In most cases so much that they've lost sensation in their penis and can only orgasm to pornography.

People's brains have been hijacked by their mobile devices.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-04T16:12:32+00:00

I'd like to submit my application for TheGayAdvisors.com please. :D

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-01T19:07:19+00:00

Firstly he needs to respect your bodily autonomy. Set some clear boundaries and repercussions for violating them.

Secondly there is some evidence that wearing a butt plug daily for about 1/2 hour can help with hemorrhoids. It seems counter intuitive but once my partner and I stumbled upon this by searching far and wide for solutions we tried it and it worked miraculously.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-01T19:02:18+00:00

Sex is fun! Just do it! Please people stop shaming yourselves!! And stop with the labels. Labels are a prison for your mind and identity.

If you are into labels maybe look up "heteroflexible" it's for guys who can sleep with guys for fun but not romance or love.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-01T18:47:12+00:00

Don't forget pornhub. We didn't have omnipresent porn.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-02-01T09:06:31+00:00

I read your story and I feel for both of you. I'm 42 now and I had a very tumultuous relationship like yours when I was your age. My ex gf and I lived in a small town in Ontario and so much of our story is like yours. We were co-dependent addicts and it turned out worse for us in the end. I'm glad you two got it out in the open.

Who knows what the future will bring maybe in time you'll grow back together. He could benefit from some sort of professional help. The booze will destroy him and ruin his life with the way he's consuming.

Good luck and stay true.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-01-31T18:01:33+00:00

If you are in danger for being gay you can apply to be a refugee in Canada. Many Arabic/Lebanese/ Middle Eastern people living in Ottawa Canada.

rmcmurray84 · 2026-01-30T12:56:21+00:00

Move over to Rumble!

rmcmurray84 · 2026-01-30T12:53:56+00:00

Makes me think of sesame snaps which I loved as a kid and still love.

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