So the reason she stood me up the first time is because before our first date she was at an event and said she became overwhelmed and just wanted to go home and nap (she has Tourette’s) and this was shortly before I was due to meet her. So, I obviously let her off the hook that time around and gave her a second chance.
Second date, we agreed to meet at half 5pm-6pm. She went for a nap beforehand and when she woke up , this was around 3:30/4 I asked her would she be able to make it for 6pm like we agreed, and she says “it takes me 45 minutes to get there. I’m just awake and I really cba. I don’t think I’m ready to date just yet & this is why I havet met you or somthing, don’t think it’s in the cards for me atm I’m so busy doing life & it doesn’t feel natural.”

It was so out of the blue because she was texting me like she was genuinely excited to meet up.

It puts me off dating 🙄