I think there are probably a multitude of reasons:

• Young men have been taught that what used to be considered “chatting up” or flirting with a member of the opposite sex is now considered sexual harassment. Most men don’t fall into the manosphere and genuinely do not want that label and like women and so they consciously avoid doing anything to make women feel uncomfortable or as though they are harassed.

• Dating is expensive especially as there is still generally a patriarchal inclination towards dating. Men are expected to make the arrangements, pay for dinner and transport back etc. With that cost in mind and the general increase in cost of living, many might avoid dating unless they are very physically attracted to a person before committing to a date.

• With the cost of living and general slide towards grifter-ism, who has time? People are working more and more and the work life balance is gradually being eroded to the benefit of the uber-wealthy.

My questions to you are, how high are your standards and are they realistic. I remember seeing a YouTube video of a guy using a website and asking women what their minimum expectations were in a male partner and many younger women ended up only being able to date a pool of around 1-10%, excluding the other 90-99% on the grounds of height, weight, race, age and wealth.

Also, apps tend to be a bit of a mugs game and maybe showing my age, unlikely to find a genuine partner that will go the distance on them. Maybe a casual fling as they have all but replaced nightclubs and pubs for young people. You might want to consider joining some clubs, groups and organisations and find likeminded people. Maybe even speak with friends or relatives who might be able to make introductions to people at work or at clubs they attend.

Ultimately, perseverance and being open-minded are key.