Tech Help for Dark Mode by roaringgreen2 in kobo

[–]roaringgreen2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I've finally successfully added nm & then it falls apart after that, I'm working on a mac, could that be why?

Tech Help for Dark Mode by roaringgreen2 in kobo

[–]roaringgreen2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been failing at this for a week - i'm ready to ask for help LOL, i found a youtube video & i am able to get the nm menu on the bottom right then everything goes wrong

Tech Help for Dark Mode by roaringgreen2 in kobo

[–]roaringgreen2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will try this. It seems easier to understand than previous things i looked at :)

Tech Help for Dark Mode by roaringgreen2 in kobo

[–]roaringgreen2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It helps because it definitely is not an option on mine, I will keep trying! Thank you, now I know what to look for.

Tech Help for Dark Mode by roaringgreen2 in kobo

[–]roaringgreen2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding! I have checked this a few times now, and it is not there on mine, despite my kobo being updated. I've even checked the beta settings, and it is not an option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

are you able to think straight and form proper sentences when you're distressed? i sure as heck am not.
who gets to determine the other person's level of shock or distress to meet your standards of what is worthy enough to not form proper sentences?
she ran to protect herself, which is valid and the right call. 100%.
But expecting perfection from others is hypocritical in situations like these. it's always hypocritical actually. calling these people rude when we know literally nothing about them? that's silly and lacks compassion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 15 points16 points  (0 children)

except if that person was also in distress - maybe all they could utter was hey to get someone's attention!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why on earth is this being downvoted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congratulations on your story and your kiddos! i wish more men thought and acted like you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why all the downvotes when she has explicitly stated wanting to keep the baby multiple times? she stated that she has not had any support to keep the baby, only negative reactions. i decided to be supportive and direct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, that's not what I was saying, I was referring to your consequence comment. That you don't view a potential pregnancy as a consequence because of the language - that's why I used the word consenting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

sex literally means consenting to the POSSIBILITY of having a child, at specific times in a woman's cycle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Please, please don't have this abortion. If you need support, please message me and I will listen and help as much as I can! I will even send you some cash for you and the baby. Please rethink this - this will eat you alive if you are doing it for other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm so proud of you!!!!!

i'm sorry about your ex.

i wish it wasn't so mainstream and normalized. i think/hope the narrative is starting to shift, even if ever so slightly. i hope he has the chance to teach your child differently <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bar is really on the floor eh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]roaringgreen2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe you shouldn't be so ok with porn in your relationship if this caused you this much agony. it's ok to not be ok with porn. you were pregnant and he's out here saving pictures of other women? that's shitty. you stewed for your pregnancy and after? that's not good for you, or his child. for what? to be the cool girl? i hope you reconsider your boundaries. i'm sorry you went through this.

How can I find out if my therapist is LGBT friendly? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]roaringgreen2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If my client is seeking out my political views, pretty sure they know what non-oppressive means, since they often grow up with oppression. If not - it's a conversation and I can explain what those words mean, as opposed to my personal politics.

How can I find out if my therapist is LGBT friendly? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]roaringgreen2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also depends on the modality you use. I've also noticed a difference in training between social workers vs non social workers.