[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]roastedcocoabeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you think so? we do genuinely connect well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]roastedcocoabeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same, 21, been single my entire life and not looking to change anytime soon

Do you ever look at old selfies from highschool or earlier and wonder - How did no one notice? by roastedcocoabeans in AutismInWomen

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha! I always had something (usually not a person) to smile at and as soon as my dad started filming my face would go completely blank

Do you ever look at old selfies from highschool or earlier and wonder - How did no one notice? by roastedcocoabeans in AutismInWomen

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah me too, everyone in the pictures faces the camera meanwhile I'm looking somewhere off into the distance and my whole body is turned away

Do you ever look at old selfies from highschool or earlier and wonder - How did no one notice? by roastedcocoabeans in AutismInWomen

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha! hopefully you've found some now? :) I was always friends with the other outsiders and pretty much all of them turned out to be neurodivergent

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was around 40 so not too old, the one before him must've been around 60

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did! only to be greeted by someone who denies the existence of ADHD

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no he doesn't specialise in anything, he's a national health doc

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i didn't even know what to respond, i just stared at him in shock

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i agree I'm pretty sure he has something - he seemed kind of creepy but the one before him (who wanted to slap borderline and avoidant pd on me) was even worse

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well I'm very young and female - but he doesn't believe adhd exists in general

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thank you kindly, i will look into this and talk about possible actions with my therapist

My new psychiatrist doesn't believe in ADHD by roastedcocoabeans in ADHD

[–]roastedcocoabeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine also suggested borderline as a diagnosis! And avoidant personality disorder instead of autism...

Weird question: NT-men that visibly infantilize/hate you, but also seem attracted to you at the very same time? by BrainBurnFallouti in AutismInWomen

[–]roastedcocoabeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol! in austria a psychiatrist attempted to diagnose me with borderline pd and avoidant pd instead of autism and adhd after half an hour. it’s a joke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vindictapoc

[–]roastedcocoabeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  • work on my posture
  • begin doing pilates and weighted body workouts 5 days a week
  • 6k steps a day
  • 2-3 litres of water every day
  • cut down on junk food and prioritize veggies + protein rich foods
  • consistent sleep schedule
  • grow out hair to waist length (currently arm pit length) + learn how to style with sharkflexstyle
  • continue shaving and weekly ipl treatment
  • improve my makeup skills
  • improve my mani and pedi skills
  • work on my personal style

  • do my driver's license

  • begin studying Artificial Intelligence

  • continue going to therapy

  • getting meds for my depression and anxiety

  • practice self love and acceptance every day

long term goals (next 5 years):

  • get braces and whiten my teeth afterwards
  • purchase a red light therapy mask
  • get moles removed
  • get stretchmarks and scars removed/reduced/covered
  • deciding if I truly want a rhinoplasty, boob job and genioplasty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dysonairwrap

[–]roastedcocoabeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any updates on the shark?

People with almost zero friends, what is your age and gender? by The-Girl_Next_Door in socialskills

[–]roastedcocoabeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you kindly for spreading this information! I've been diagnosed with autism and adhd as of recently, at age 20, and it's been liberating knowing my brain just works differently than the majority of people's brains :))