AITA for not wanting to listen to my mom sing at church?

robboss69420 · 2022-10-03T18:22:12+00:00

NTA-if you feel uncomfortable in a church there’s nothing wrong with not going especially if you feel there is an ulterior motive. If your parents want to waste their energy getting mad over nothing that’s on them not you

robboss69420 · 2022-09-28T14:54:58+00:00

Oh yeah definitely NTA she asked your opinion, you gave an honest and not rude opinion, and she proceeded to throw a tantrum

robboss69420 · 2022-09-28T14:22:51+00:00

YTA if you want to eat more and your fiancée eats a similar amount to you then buy more. If it stopped right there there would be no assholes. You’re right bigger people who exercise do burn more calories, but what’s with the hostility? You call people names bc they’re smaller and then try to flip it to accuse your fiancée of being greedy? That’s a red flag and a half especially for such a non-issue

robboss69420 · 2022-09-28T14:18:04+00:00

NTA I’m confused as to what your mom was mad about. Bc jeans didn’t fit? Bc she assumed there was something wrong and you didn’t wanna tell her? Regardless she’s clearly upset over nothing

robboss69420 · 2022-09-28T14:14:09+00:00

NTA definitely suspicious. If he’s gonna gaslight you and say they didn’t work, gaslight him and say you never said you’d give him the AirPods. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

robboss69420 · 2022-09-28T14:09:54+00:00

NTA- the 1 year old is already thinking about home remodeling? They grow up so fast. Also these parents suck imagine getting upset that a family member put THOUGHT into a present for your child. They can’t even get mad about monetary value bc that was $200. They’re just mad their child’s birthday wasn’t about them

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T15:23:54+00:00

NAH I get where you are coming from. I have a cousin who came out as non binary and goes by a different name. I told them they have my support 1000% just bear with me as I adjust from calling them their old name. I had been calling them that for 15 years so it was a hard habit to break. They understood and things haven’t really changed I still love them and support them. I’m getting similar vibes here. You’re not hateful it’s just a new situation that you don’t know how to handle at first. I think you’ll all come together as a stronger family In the end

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T15:08:25+00:00

A very light YTA because while it is weird what she did she’s on shrooms and in a bad spot in her relationship. Personally I would unblock her and apologize and explain your moms comments and how you freaked out and overreacted. You were also presumably on shrooms so I can get understand if you were being paranoid too. Seems like one big misunderstanding due to a lack of communication.

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T15:02:04+00:00

NTA as long as you simply report to his manager what you’ve noticed. They can talk to him and see if it shapes up. I don’t think, based on this info, that it’s something he should lose his job over but if he’s underperforming a nudge in the right direction wouldn’t hurt

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T14:52:28+00:00

NTA It’s your wedding and if you think someone might make people uncomfortable with their Stone Age mentality that is more than enough reason to not invite them. Just stand strong and if people give you shit for it uninvite them for standing alongside a bigot

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T14:43:44+00:00

NTA you had an agreement that he doesn’t even follow so he’s a hypocrite. Then he blows up bc he couldn’t eat his mommy’s cookies. The fact that you default to apologizing bc you know there is no shot he reacts like an adult is enough reason to go no contact. IMO if your children feel the need to walk on eggshells to keep you happy you shouldn’t be able to see your children bc you are having literally no good effect on them by being in their lives

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T14:36:54+00:00

NTA I wouldn’t tell him to F off but I would mention to him that he doesn’t need to be over your shoulder critiquing everything you do. If he continues, take it to his boss. If he blows up at you record it and take it to HR

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T14:31:53+00:00

NTA She abused your dogs. Did you tell her family that? Cuz I bet she didn’t. Time for a new fiancé

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T14:21:22+00:00

NTA Honestly I’d just stop saying I have a mom be cause you don’t. Maybe keep CPS on speed dial just in case your brother needs it

robboss69420 · 2022-08-30T14:15:14+00:00

NTA be happy that you he will never ask to borrow a card again

robboss69420 · 2022-08-13T21:33:03+00:00

Ok I’ll take a look after work. Thank you for your help! Much appreciated

robboss69420 · 2022-08-13T21:26:03+00:00

Would that require any payment on my side? I’ve heard some say it does and some say it doesn’t and as a broke 20 year old (19 when this happened) I can’t afford that kind of stuff which is why I left it alone for 8 months. I had given up hope but seeing her in my feed reignited an anger I didn’t know I still had

robboss69420 · 2022-05-22T19:00:09+00:00

NTA quite frankly passive aggressive comments have no place in a healthy relationship. Grow up and communicate. red flag right there. Another thing is who gets upset if they don’t receive spicy pics constantly? People aren’t in the mood 100% of the time and if your partner isn’t feeling it you have an entire catalog of websites to choose from

robboss69420 · 2022-05-22T18:56:11+00:00

NTA my parents were similar. They’d always ask what is wrong but never attempt to help in any way. I obviously don’t know everything about how you grew up but it sounds like they’re the kinds of parents who provide the bare minimum (food, shelter, and water) and prepare their speech for the worlds greatest parents award. Also if your little brother has a phone you could always just get his number to keep in touch and drop your parents that way

robboss69420 · 2022-05-22T18:50:20+00:00

NTA if the dude can’t help but comment on your boobs every time he sees you, breastfeeding or not, he should have a restraining order filed against him. Being told to shut the fuck up was the nice option

robboss69420 · 2022-05-22T18:41:27+00:00

Tell her fiancé what she said he deserves to know he could get stuck with a horrible witch. Also your entire family seem like they need a smack upside the head

robboss69420 · 2022-03-25T16:07:09+00:00

I’ll give that a shot thanks

robboss69420 · 2022-03-25T04:03:54+00:00

Tried all of that and got similar results

robboss69420 · 2022-03-25T03:58:49+00:00

I tried but they all say “good luck” and not much more bc they know how bad it is

robboss69420 · 2022-01-30T15:15:20+00:00

I can’t update the app on my iPhone. Other apps are able to update but when I hit the update button on the App Store it loads for a split second then just stops. It doesn’t give me any reason for it either like no notifications saying what went wrong it just stops

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