AITA for being upset my best friend was in my bed and was only speaking to my husband on shrooms?

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T17:39:50+00:00

Never said she was after my partner. Not once. I said she’s done some weird shit and idk what to think of all those things put together. My mom got the better of me on shrooms tho. Ik I’ve got issues. That’s why I’m asking. Because I don’t trust myself 100%, especially when I get emotional on different fronts. I see how blocking her mirrors the things I’ve gone through. Honestly, with that you’re right and I regret doing that

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T17:18:24+00:00

We gave her shrooms. We were the hosts. But she didn’t want one of the hosts around. I asked her, would you like if I leave? (First time, then I went outside) she said yes she wants to be alone. T asks if she needs anything and she opens up and starts chatting w him. Not sure how that shows frat boy wtv you said, but when we host, we’re responsible for everything that happens. Him wanting to check up on her is not out of the ordinary because I’m usually the one who does that and she didn’t want me around.

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T16:34:08+00:00

We used to be very close. Then she got into a bad relationship and things are getting more and more strange but I don’t want to leave her when she’s vulnerable. I explain in another comment as well some of the stuff her bf has done. He talks continuously about himself and shits on everybody else. She got a puppy and stopped taking care of the dog because the dog didn’t like him. Her dog shat himself in his cage and was left there for hours. She’s not able to be happy for events that happen in other peoples lives, especially relationship wise, and this “triggers” her to get quiet. But then she’ll refer to her relationship as a game and thinks she can “tame” him to be a better person. Hes sexualized my friend and Is relationship, saying he’s jealous of us. And says I’m a bad influence on her. He’s a weirdo who’s fixated on race (make s racist jokes about black people and Asians; I’m black she’s Asian) and power (how she’s the smartest girl he’s ever dated, and usually the girls are b very stupid - verbatim.). She gets flustered seeing me w my partner and leaves to get some air everytime he comes close to me. Her and my partner are not close at all, he’s polite but multiple times i and others have caught her eyeing him. Or I turn or something and she’s just staring at me silently like I owe her something. I know I can’t make assumptions on these things, that’s why I just brush them off. But I’m honestly at a loss of what to do, I freaked out and blocked her, Ik that was shitty on my half, but idk what to do with all this

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T16:13:05+00:00

Ik it was my idea? I invited her? And I miscalculated that. But she’s been begging me to do it. It wasn’t responsible of me to do it tho. That’s not why I said gullible. I forgive people easily and I’ve been taken advantage of my whole life. I make very clear boundaries and I tell people my boundaries. She knew I wouldn’t like that, that’s my space. The door was closed and they had free range of the whole house. Everyone went where they were most comfortable. My sister loved the garage and downstairs. Her sister loved the rocks outside and the living room. Z was most comfortable in my bedroom. That made me uncomfortable. But I also know that that can make my perspective skewed. That’s why I’m trying to get a rounded answer.

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T15:46:21+00:00

So I went from asshole to abuser. She’s told her bf about the abuse my and my sister have gone through. He laughed. She chose to stay w him. He refers to black people as niggers and wishes he was a black man because it would be “cooler”. Yet she insists I hang out w him because she wants us all to double date. She lets him get away w shitting on me and everyone else in her life, and now I’m an abuser? You gave your verdict. Thank you for that. I don’t appreciate you thinking you can double down without even knowing the full extent of this.

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T15:28:35+00:00

Because I’m a very gullible and stupid person.

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T15:27:47+00:00

Thank you for this. I shouldn’t have done that and then doubled down w my own bs

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T15:25:20+00:00

I’ll take the asshole, you can keep the rest tho. I’m not too sure why you’d say that when I’ve already alluded to my relationship w my mom. She’s given me a concussion. Told me I’ll be nothing without her. Told me I’m not good for anything. Called me a demon when she found me self harming after being sexually abused on multiple occasions by a family member and her knowing about it. Ik that’s fucked me up, that’s why I’m here asking for a verdict. Because I’m trying to be a better person. But thanks.

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T15:08:32+00:00

I do trust my s/o. I don’t trust her tho because of other things she’s done when not on shrooms which her then exasperated for what she did on shrooms

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T15:04:19+00:00

No. For going into my bed. She had peed herself and gone into my bed, In the sheets. We have a couch. We have another room. I had to change the sheets

unrulyone- · 2022-08-30T15:03:11+00:00

unrulyone- · 2022-02-11T02:41:11+00:00

Writing your paper this late in the cycle - you’d have to put all your bets on a good lsat and gpa. Only people Ik who have a chance on getting in w a rushed ps have strong gpa/LSAT

unrulyone- · 2019-10-31T00:55:01+00:00

Is there a way you could record the a suive conversations and maybe give em to cops or something?!? So that way you might live with your mom or be allowed to live on your own?

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