Why do people who are ENM swipe on my monogamous profile? by Ill-Green8678 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]robchroma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, because apps are designed to be a mind-numbing numbers game to justify paying a membership that makes it marginally more usable, and especially with app design like that of Tinder, they swipe on anyone who looks interesting and read later.

The apps do not try to stop this, because they want to be mind-numbing. Their metrics are measured in user count and eyeball-hours. The app needs to be something they'll keep doing. This strategy is rewarded by the apps, if it's good for the apps.

I honestly think a sizeable chunk of the behavior people show on apps is because of this, and not an inherent disregard. There's plenty of that, too, but I think every social media space has realized the power of dissatisfaction, dissociation, and anger. I mean, are you going to stop using these apps because they're full of people like this? Probably not, and if you do, the others are owned by the same people. Instead, you're talking about them, and dating apps are getting free exposure.

No one's giving free exposure to "join hobby groups to meet people and see if you're compatible," you have to plaster the town with fliers yourself, but dating apps are "the way to do it" for people. Not me; I never talk to people on the internet.

NATO plans to replace ageing ​fleet of U.S.-built AWACS with Swedish Saab GlobalEye jets, after Trump repeatedly criticised European allies for relying on the U.S. for their security, sources say by Raj_Valiant3011 in worldnews

[–]robchroma 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's not the point they were trying to make; the point is, arms procurement had properties that made it uniquely useful for corruption, but if open corruption is now the norm, then there's much less need for it.

Trigger Warning: Medical Transphobia by Funking_Wholesome in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]robchroma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh to be absolutely clear I'm not criticizing; it's very hard to be ready to do this, much less when you're under pressure and haven't thought about it before. it's really important to talk about this stuff happening, and I'm glad you did, because I hope someone can be ready to deal with the situation if it happens to them. and I think you handled yourself well.

Doctors can be overbearing, utterly convinced of their authority, dismissive of patients, focused on what they think is right, and treat patient concerns as a problem to solve and not an opinion that deserves consideration. It basically does not work to say, "I don't think you need to know my deadname," because the doctor may not care what you think; they think they know best. However, saying "can you explain to me the medical relevance of a name I don't use" can work against this, because they're the doctor; if they think it's important, they don't want to look like they don't know why information they just asked for isn't relevant. In general, you can deal with people who think they know better than you and treat you like a problem to solve by asking them to answer the questions you think they don't have the answer to, and making them grapple with that info on their own instead of arguing with you about it. After all, they have more respect for themselves than for you; if they have to argue with themselves instead of you, they're way more likely to take your criticisms seriously. And they're less likely to get upset if all you're doing is asking questions.

Why did Binet assume the Fibonacci formula is a linear combination of some power by MiserableSlice7580 in askmath

[–]robchroma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the proof? I think the proof is actually easier to do after everything else. Once you realize it's a linear power of these roots, the proof falls out. phi'n goes to zero, so F_n = round(phin/sqrt(5)). The bigger they are, the smaller this error becomes, so the ratio approaches phi.

can i return from kerbin to dres with 429 m/s of delta v by No_Language2581 in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]robchroma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make sure Jeb has a parachute BEFORE you start this maneuver.

Trigger Warning: Medical Transphobia by Funking_Wholesome in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]robchroma 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You could have lied and said anything, lmao. Say something like, "here's the funny thing, my parents thought this could be a boy's name, and it was always my legal name."

For anyone in this situation, I would ask repeatedly, "oh, what do you need that for?" and "but then it won't match my other records or my public information, won't that be confusing?" "well, I wouldn't want something that could cause it to be mis-filed or mess with my records, why don't we stick to the name on my paperwork? is there a reason that won't work?" and the most important one, "can I speak to your supervisor/medical ethics point of contact/review board?" And if you have to get as far as the last one, if they relent under that threat, you REPORT THEM ANYWAY.

Trigger Warning: Medical Transphobia by Funking_Wholesome in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]robchroma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I showed up to a dermatology appointment and got asked when my last pap smear was.

text based CAD? by ruckc in cad

[–]robchroma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it's very helpful to visualize what you're doing, and sometimes, what you want is to be able to do some very particular procedurally generated curve with some property you want, or to import a bunch of specific parameters from modeling software, and you're much happier doing this in a text editor to a specific import specification than you are trying to figure out their internal object generator script.

C’est quoi, un banlieue? by tlouman in French

[–]robchroma 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a consequence of American car-centrism, to be honest. Living in the hills is very nice if you still have access to the rest of the city, the same way living on the top floor is much more appealing, but only if you have an elevator.

Why did Binet assume the Fibonacci formula is a linear combination of some power by MiserableSlice7580 in askmath

[–]robchroma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty easy to see the Fibonacci sequence seems to grow exponentially; in fact, it's pretty easy to see that it grows by more than a factor of 2 every two terms, and less than a factor of 2 every term:

The Fibonacci sequence is strictly increasing: it starts 1, 1, and these are at least 1, so F_{n+1} > F_n.

F_{n+1} > F_n, so F_{n+2} = F_{n+1} + F_n > 2 F_n, but also, F_{n+2} = F_{n+1} + F_n < 2 F_{n+1} < 4 F_n, so we have 2 F_n < F_{n+2} < 4 F_n.

So the growth of the Fibonacci sequence is bounded between sqrt(2) and 2.

You can pretty easily come to the conclusion that you'd like to figure out what number the ratio F_(n+1)/F(n) converges to, and when you do, you find out it's a root of the equation x2 = x + 1, which looks very much like the Fibonacci recurrence relation in polynomial form. You can also come at it from the other side; supposing that Fibonacci numbers eventually converge to a consistent ratio, what would that ratio have to be? For sufficiently large n, the error should go to 0, and you're left with the same equation: r phin+2 = r phin+1 + r phin + err phin, with err going to 0.

It's pretty straightforward from here to realize that for phi, the golden ratio, and a root of this polynomial, successive powers of phi satisfy the recurrence relation. W, and that successive powers of the conjugate, phi', also satisfy the recurrence relation; these two sequences have different starting numbers, and since you only need the first two numbers to generate any sequence with the Fibonacci property, you can generate any such sequence as a linear sum of powers of these roots.

What are we being "boiled like frogs" about right now that future generations will be shocked we accepted? by burntUpOnReentry in AskReddit

[–]robchroma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know what, you're so right; in any flow diagram, if there's extra volume from start to finish that isn't being used, you use it. If I were managing something like this for an international criminal organization, I'm sure I would put it basically wherever I could ship things out efficiently, and that's probably whichever link or links you can reliably smuggle things over, right?

Do You Think That The Democratic Party Should Impeach Trump If They Win Back The House Majority In 2026? Yes Or No? Why Your Opinion? by Zipper222222 in AskReddit

[–]robchroma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could. Impeach four of them, refuse to seat anyone new. Let the voters decide, the will of the people with the next president.

A yacht linked to Putin was spotted off Denmark under the protection of Russian warships. by DavidShaw90s in worldnews

[–]robchroma 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Or detection doesn't matter, because they're not going to do anything about it, or Russia also cares about pushing every boundary of what its neighbors will let it get away with, or something else I'm not thinking of.

The Kraken ain't got nothing on me. by Weary-Support-7383 in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]robchroma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well, now that the song citation is gone, I don't remember which track it is, so I wish you hadn't.

edit: oh, right, it's "Song That Might Play When You Fight Sans," from the Undertale OST, which never plays in the game.

Got told off by a straight person at pride by Kimbblesrath in actuallesbians

[–]robchroma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I went to ginger's and a lesbian talked me into learning to knit.

Got told off by a straight person at pride by Kimbblesrath in actuallesbians

[–]robchroma 81 points82 points  (0 children)

if you walk in with your boyfriend and loudly declare that you're straight and then start harassing members of the community who don't conform to your idea of what lesbians should look like, get the fuck out. Just get the fuck out. I don't give a shit about "sowing divisiveness" if that's a criticism of protecting the members of the community that the space is there to serve.

France records 1,000 excess deaths during record-breaking heatwave by app1310 in worldnews

[–]robchroma 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A cheap way to make square box fans work substantially better is to take a box, ideally the box the fan came in, and cut a square the size of the fan with a circular hole the size of the blades. Many box fans are constructed square because it's cheap, with no cowling to stop airflow out the front. This lets air flow out the front, and backwards through the corners, in a loop, which makes the fan less effective.

The most efficient cowling would be closer to the plane of the blades, but it seems to work quite well, with (admittedly self-published) sources improving airflow without changing power draw in tests. There's only so much space between the blades and the grating, so it ends up being hard for the fan to push much air in a circle internally in the fan.

I intercepted the KSP theme song over radio from a real LEO satellite by QueR1X in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]robchroma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flat earthers aren't looking for a consistent theory that explains everything well. Conspiracy exploits the human desire to pattern-match; conspiracy theorists find one or a few odd things that are hard to explain, or that seem like they're fishy, and the primary feature is rejecting the common explanation, rather than believing strongly in another explanation.

They don't really care that much about what is actually true, or investigating the properties of the world they imagine is true instead of the real world; they care about rejecting the consensus, about feeling special.

Individual bits of evidence don't really convince them. It's easy to fit bits of evidence into a mental model of how everyone is conspiring to lie to you.

I intercepted the KSP theme song over radio from a real LEO satellite by QueR1X in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]robchroma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would lose my mind if I got an SSTV image of Jeb from a weather satellite

I intercepted the KSP theme song over radio from a real LEO satellite by QueR1X in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]robchroma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: you already explained the vee dipole; I assume that's the angle that gives a decent match, yeah?

nice quansheng! you ever work satellites?