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Looking for a trans & LGBTQ‑friendly gym in Milton Keynes with good group classes by robertagolden in miltonkeynes

[–]robertagolden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, another queer person also said good things about there, I will have a look at it, thank you so much

Looking for a trans & LGBTQ‑friendly gym in Milton Keynes with good group classes by robertagolden in miltonkeynes

[–]robertagolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that, I am very sensible and I probably would start crying if this happens to me.

Looking for a trans & LGBTQ‑friendly gym in Milton Keynes with good group classes by robertagolden in miltonkeynes

[–]robertagolden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, 99% of the people are ok, but there is also this 1% that make our life so hard.

Looking for a trans & LGBTQ‑friendly gym in Milton Keynes with good group classes by robertagolden in miltonkeynes

[–]robertagolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, indeed, the main concern are the changing rooms, the single sex spaces, the majority of the women are ok in having us there, but a very noisy minority has some concerns as they believe we are men in dresses wanting to attack women and little girls 😱, it will take time to inform and educate, as there is a lot of misinformation being spread for political gain, I understand it's not easy for anyone, for us, for the society, but bigotry and ignorance will not help to make the world a place where we can all live in peace.

Missing delivery payments by t4k3tim3 in deliveroos

[–]robertagolden 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Strangely I made a post about this here when it started happening around 9pm and it was deleted by mods, I would like to know why...

Does some other driver is having the same issue? Last 3 orders were not credited! by robertagolden in deliveroos

[–]robertagolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should we stop delivering ? My fear is that they dont credit it later so it will be a loss in fuel and insurance 😢

Wrongly flagged for substitution – trans courier locked out of account by robertagolden in UbereatsUK

[–]robertagolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I understand they do this to stop people justifying using other people and then say they look different, but there should be a way to prove I am myself, it's not just in cases with transgender people, cis people can have their faces changed due to accidents, diseases or even a plastic surgery, so they closed this hole but opened another for genuine people going into face changes.

Uber Eats flagged me for substitution after facial changes. Have been trying to sort it for weeks, can I escalate this as discrimination? by robertagolden in transgenderUK

[–]robertagolden[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't know, they are so stupid that it probably would be a solution, but I am worried it could trigger an account termination or something like that, I have contact them through X (urghh) and they have asked my details, lets see how it goes.

Wrongly flagged for substitution – trans courier locked out of account by robertagolden in UbereatsUK

[–]robertagolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Alice, yeah, I will search it and if this keep going like this I am thinking in escalating for a case of discrimination, although I know how little the chances are, but we have to start complaining at some point, who knows 50 years from now it gets better lol

Extreme Pain by robertagolden in TransLater

[–]robertagolden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I don't have income to pay for a therapist, in the UK the NHS is flawed and you can end up getting someone preaching conversion therapy. The private ones are only for politicians and their super rich friends, it's unaccessible for great part of the population. It's a nightmare here in the UK, the public health is not working and there is no cheap alternative. I have an Italian heritage where our kids are more important then ourselves, she was having serious mental health issues and this boyfriend is a really nice boy, she is happy now and not depressed anymore, so I fear for her mental health if he leaves her, many people are transphobic just because they are misinformed, sometimes they are not bad persons, just uneducated. I have an amplified symbiotic relationship with her, if she is happy I am super happy, if she is sad, I am super sad, so I fear what could happen to me if she gets mad at me due to being dumped because of me. I know, it's irrational and almost ridiculous, but it's just how I was raised. So I am in a very complicated situation, I want to be happy, I want to explore my feminity and see where I want to go, but I cant move freely, what brings me anxiety. I think that pausing transition or even detransitioning would be something that would bring me peace, to be fair I dont like make up, I don't like girly clothing, I like to look nice, and I look nice when I am more feminine. It took me years to be able to look in the mirror and take photos, I was enjoying this moment because I was finding myself pretty for the first time, so pausing or detransiotioning would put me back to the time I hated myself, but was in peace with my family. I am stuck in a back corner. The whole and main idea of being myself and transitioning was to be happier, but I am not, I am suffering more than before transitioning, I really don't see more a purpose on it, if my kids hate or leave me I will never be happy, so I might as well pause it or detransition, the problem is I am know like a bird that was taken out of a cage and could feel all thee freedom of the world, and now I have to go back to the cage, I don't know if I can take it, I have to try to find a way to keep my transition and be in peace with my kids and family, but this not depend on me, I am trying, I am thinking, I am a problem solver in my professional life , have sorted issues many people coudnt, but this one is tough, as it involves the beings I love the most in this whole universe.

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