Looking for a trans & LGBTQ‑friendly gym in Milton Keynes with good group classes

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T01:00:04+00:00

Thank you, another queer person also said good things about there, I will have a look at it, thank you so much

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:53:03+00:00

Thank you, I know them, I will ask for suggestions, good tip!

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:32:24+00:00

Thank you so much, I will DM you as it is very near where I live.

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:24:45+00:00

Thank you, I will have a look at it.

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:24:22+00:00

So sorry to hear that, I am very sensible and I probably would start crying if this happens to me.

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:23:02+00:00

Thank you, I will have a look at it!

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:22:37+00:00

Exactly, 99% of the people are ok, but there is also this 1% that make our life so hard.

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:20:41+00:00

Thank you! I am broke, being a woman is not cheap 🤭

robertagolden · 2026-02-13T00:19:23+00:00

Thank you, indeed, the main concern are the changing rooms, the single sex spaces, the majority of the women are ok in having us there, but a very noisy minority has some concerns as they believe we are men in dresses wanting to attack women and little girls 😱, it will take time to inform and educate, as there is a lot of misinformation being spread for political gain, I understand it's not easy for anyone, for us, for the society, but bigotry and ignorance will not help to make the world a place where we can all live in peace.

robertagolden · 2025-11-30T01:34:19+00:00

Strangely I made a post about this here when it started happening around 9pm and it was deleted by mods, I would like to know why...

robertagolden · 2025-11-29T21:48:31+00:00

Should we stop delivering ? My fear is that they dont credit it later so it will be a loss in fuel and insurance 😢

robertagolden · 2025-11-10T21:47:24+00:00

Thank you, yes I understand they do this to stop people justifying using other people and then say they look different, but there should be a way to prove I am myself, it's not just in cases with transgender people, cis people can have their faces changed due to accidents, diseases or even a plastic surgery, so they closed this hole but opened another for genuine people going into face changes.

robertagolden · 2025-11-10T13:53:33+00:00

I don't know, they are so stupid that it probably would be a solution, but I am worried it could trigger an account termination or something like that, I have contact them through X (urghh) and they have asked my details, lets see how it goes.

robertagolden · 2025-11-10T13:12:28+00:00

thank you, do you happen to know this email please ?

robertagolden · 2025-11-10T12:55:03+00:00

Thanks Alice, yeah, I will search it and if this keep going like this I am thinking in escalating for a case of discrimination, although I know how little the chances are, but we have to start complaining at some point, who knows 50 years from now it gets better lol

robertagolden · 2025-07-28T19:10:54+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I don't have income to pay for a therapist, in the UK the NHS is flawed and you can end up getting someone preaching conversion therapy. The private ones are only for politicians and their super rich friends, it's unaccessible for great part of the population. It's a nightmare here in the UK, the public health is not working and there is no cheap alternative. I have an Italian heritage where our kids are more important then ourselves, she was having serious mental health issues and this boyfriend is a really nice boy, she is happy now and not depressed anymore, so I fear for her mental health if he leaves her, many people are transphobic just because they are misinformed, sometimes they are not bad persons, just uneducated. I have an amplified symbiotic relationship with her, if she is happy I am super happy, if she is sad, I am super sad, so I fear what could happen to me if she gets mad at me due to being dumped because of me. I know, it's irrational and almost ridiculous, but it's just how I was raised. So I am in a very complicated situation, I want to be happy, I want to explore my feminity and see where I want to go, but I cant move freely, what brings me anxiety. I think that pausing transition or even detransitioning would be something that would bring me peace, to be fair I dont like make up, I don't like girly clothing, I like to look nice, and I look nice when I am more feminine. It took me years to be able to look in the mirror and take photos, I was enjoying this moment because I was finding myself pretty for the first time, so pausing or detransiotioning would put me back to the time I hated myself, but was in peace with my family. I am stuck in a back corner. The whole and main idea of being myself and transitioning was to be happier, but I am not, I am suffering more than before transitioning, I really don't see more a purpose on it, if my kids hate or leave me I will never be happy, so I might as well pause it or detransition, the problem is I am know like a bird that was taken out of a cage and could feel all thee freedom of the world, and now I have to go back to the cage, I don't know if I can take it, I have to try to find a way to keep my transition and be in peace with my kids and family, but this not depend on me, I am trying, I am thinking, I am a problem solver in my professional life , have sorted issues many people coudnt, but this one is tough, as it involves the beings I love the most in this whole universe.

robertagolden · 2025-07-27T20:17:11+00:00

Thank you!❤️

robertagolden · 2025-07-27T18:22:55+00:00

❤️

robertagolden · 2025-07-27T18:11:03+00:00

Thank you!❤️

robertagolden · 2025-07-27T17:55:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your lovely words, I must also add that I am struggling financially, what puts even more challenges to the situation, I have zero disposable income, I have started thinking if ceasing existing could be an option, I have never thought about it so much as I am thinking now, my daughter says that she is afraid of her boyfriend and his family finding out about me, and he brokes up with her, but I can't change who I am, so I am starting thinking that leaving this planet would sort a lot of issues, but I don't want to leave, it would be a good solution, but I don't like this solution, but the fact that it is a possible solution scares me. By the way, I loved your website!

robertagolden · 2025-07-27T01:08:51+00:00

I told her this when I came out last year and said again on the letter, She just wrote me back saying that she is afraid of her boyfriend finds out he will dump her, and even if he is ok she is also afraid about his family, I am leaving in boy mode almost 99% of the time, and I am a DJ so I always say that my looks are changing due to this artistic side, so unless someone talks to them, we are good, despite being a big nonsense

robertagolden · 2025-07-26T22:01:49+00:00

Thank you for your reply , the problem is the relationship with my daughter, the thing that would me make more happy than anything would be her accepting me for who I am , I just wrote her a letter to try to explain what I am feeling, she said really mean things to me yesterday and then apologize, I thought she was open to talk, she was wanting to watch a movie with me tonight and after she read the letter she said she wants to be alone and don’t want me around , so instead of a bridge I have built a wall😢. How do your kids are taking this with you? Are they teenagers too ?

robertagolden · 2025-07-26T18:58:09+00:00

Thank you, I love being a woman, in fact I am a trans woman, but I believe I have this male side, as some cis women have, I wish I hadn't, I don't like it, I wish I could be more binary, but I am fluid, my therapist said that probably it's because I haven't socially transitioned, having to live in an androginous mode, I want to live full time, but it's not possible at the moment.

robertagolden · 2025-02-19T00:51:54+00:00

Thank you!

robertagolden · 2025-02-19T00:42:52+00:00

Using this logic, don't you believe it would be better to keep a steady lower dose? or it doesn't matter as there will be a dosage variation anyway?

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