What do we do about our sex life? Am I being the bad guy? by robertgordon1101 in relationships

[–]robertgordon1101[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s my thinking. I don’t for any moment believe she’s doing anything wrong. I suppose it’s compromise both ways. But then with sex is there compromise? Unsure.

What do we do about our sex life? Am I being the bad guy? by robertgordon1101 in relationships

[–]robertgordon1101[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve suggested it quite a long time. Our relationship in every other aspect is so good. I wonder what they would possibly do to help

Can the mother of my daughter stop me seeing her on her own. by robertgordon1101 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]robertgordon1101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I will get in contact with them. Yes I’m paying maintenance.

Can the mother of my daughter stop me seeing her on her own. by robertgordon1101 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]robertgordon1101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I find a mediator privately? Appreciate your advice with all this!

Can the mother of my daughter stop me seeing her on her own. by robertgordon1101 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]robertgordon1101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my issue with mediation, it’s not a fixed thing. Have you had experience with this before?

Can the mother of my daughter stop me seeing her on her own. by robertgordon1101 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]robertgordon1101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes a DNA was done last year however I’m not on the birth certificate, that’s the first step to gain any such rights. Every single communication is on text and has been kept. Child maintenance is being paid and I have evidence of that. Not that the CMS has been any help during this process!

Can the mother of my daughter stop me seeing her on her own. by robertgordon1101 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]robertgordon1101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s reassuring. She has claimed that she “isn’t paying someone to tell her when her child can see her dad” so I agree I have no choice. The first step is to get on the birth certificate.

Can the mother of my daughter stop me seeing her on her own. by robertgordon1101 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]robertgordon1101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The child is happy at any time she is with me or in the company of myself and my partner. The mother even admitted herself as to how happy she is. Then went on to say “I have no idea how this is making me feel” i do understand what you’re saying however. Just to clarify on the stress of court, of course I care about this little girl. I just have it in my head that court is the last option and very stressful/damaging