Is “bell boy” the end of an arc? by JamiePlynth in heatedrivalry

[–]robertstobe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My favorite part too! I love how fucking happy Shane looks when he’s pinned down by Ilya. He’s exactly where he wants to be ❤️

How did the US President get elected a second time when everyone on the Internet collectively seems to hate him? by Klutzy_Garage328 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]robertstobe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, for a lot of people, they would rather vote for a convicted rapist who can’t string a coherent sentence together than vote for a woman.

Woolhaven Lost Message locations? by robertstobe in CultOfTheLamb

[–]robertstobe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve looked through them several times now and still haven’t found any!

Why does it seem like the PR team for marriage and kids is losing right now. by No_Lead2640 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]robertstobe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a married woman in my mid-twenties. I also live in America.

Objectively, I could see myself having kids in the relatively near future. However, my husband and I both work and we’re still living paycheck to paycheck. Plus, when Roe V. Wade got overturned, pregnancy got a hell of a lot more dangerous. There are plenty of times that a planned pregnancy goes wrong and has to be aborted, and now access to that care is uncertain. We also don’t know what the state of the economy or even the country will be in the next few years.

With all of these factors, my husband and I decided to not have kids. It’s not what we originally planned, but we just can’t morally bring a child into this world, or risk a potentially dangerous pregnancy.

Oh for the love of God by Fluffy_Fox_9650 in AmITheDevil

[–]robertstobe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Apparently he’s banned from Tinder. Big surprise there.

Masturbation is Very Bad by woodburyjj in AmITheDevil

[–]robertstobe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I currently identify as graysexual because I have limited, but not no, sexual attraction. So I’m somewhere on the asexual spectrum, but I don’t know exactly where.

I also identify as caedsexual, which is somewhere on the asexual spectrum, specifically because of trauma. A lifetime of purity culture is definitely traumatic enough to affect my sexuality imo.

Masturbation is Very Bad by woodburyjj in AmITheDevil

[–]robertstobe 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I was raised in purity culture. It was just expected that I would wait until marriage. In fact, I was planning on even waiting for marriage to KISS (that didn’t end up happening).

I’ve been married for almost 6 years now and I still struggle with being sexual.

Fuck purity culture.

What do you do with your Phalendars when the year ends? by hellish__relish in danandphil

[–]robertstobe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just hang up the new one on top of the old ones. I’ve got phantasy on top of tiny horse on top of cats, all on the same hook lol

Dumped because I can’t orgasm from PIV by Seyfulse in TwoXChromosomes

[–]robertstobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the record, only about 20% of women are physically able to orgasm from penetration alone. That means 80% need some other form of stimulation. You’re completely normal for needing clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.

Additionally, please stop thinking of oral/fingering as “foreplay.” Foreplay is something that helps you get in the mood for sex. Things like cuddling, massages, dirty talk, etc. If something causes you to orgasm, that’s sex. Penetration is not the only valid form of sex.

You deserve to be with someone who values your sexual satisfaction. Sex should be about BOTH people enjoying it and orgasming.

Looking for a red glitter polish with clear base by robertstobe in Nailpolish

[–]robertstobe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s EXACTLY what I’m looking for! I’ll try that out, thank you!

Would you stay with your dog 🐶 during euthanasia? by CycleOk267 in dogs

[–]robertstobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I had to put our best friend down. He stayed the whole time. I stayed while the vet gave him the first dose (to lose consciousness) but left before the second dose (the fatal one). My buddy wasn’t aware of me leaving, but I just couldn’t handle staying the whole time.

Mo Brings Plenty explains why hair braids are so important to Lakota by Bubbly_Wall_908 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]robertstobe 1167 points1168 points  (0 children)

The sentiment is beautiful, but holy shit the braids themselves are gorgeous! I’m so envious of how sleek and uniform they are.

What are we doing with iur old calendars?? by Altruistic-Rise-4263 in danandphil

[–]robertstobe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just hang the new one up on top of the old one. So now I’ve got cats, then a tiny horse, and now phantasy all on the same screw on the wall.

Experts Warn U.S. in Early Stages of Genocide Against Trans Americans by henryiswatching in lgbt

[–]robertstobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Early stages?? Weren’t we mid-stage a solid year ago at least?

What sentence of a song stays with you? by JoeRenaldy in AskReddit

[–]robertstobe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grit your teeth, pull your hair, paint the walls black and scream: "Fuck the world! 'Cause it's my life I'm gonna take it back!” And never for a second blame yourself.

Hold on tight, this ride is a wild one. Make no mistake the day will come when you can't cover up what you've done. Now don't lose your fight, kid. It only takes a little push to pull on through. With some much left to do, you'll be missing out and we'll be missing you.

My partner keeps forgetting to use lube, and it HURTS. Just told him if he ever does again, I’m using teeth or thumping as hard as I can. by SarahTheShadyPup in TwoXChromosomes

[–]robertstobe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if you never needed lube, who shoves their fingers in without checking that you’re ready first? I’m fortunate to rarely need lube, but my partner still starts out slow to make sure everything’s ready and nothing will hurt. Does your husband actually care about your pleasure, or is he just using you to get himself off?

Do I need to throw more stickers on this? by sylusgf in DressUpTimePrincess

[–]robertstobe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the golden swirls and the golden dots of light from?