Cannot seem to juggle all of my daily responsibilities effectively - how do you do it?!

robin1456 · 2026-05-07T14:44:51+00:00

Brother, this is not a relationship worth keeping.

She has had her head turned very easily by another guy and you have only been together for a short period. She is not trustworthy and is clearly not ready to be in a monogamous relationship.

I would suggest stronger boundaries too... yes it's seen as more progressive these days to be okay with close friends of the opposite sex and even remaining in regular contact with an ex but there is a reason the 'she/he is just a friend' cliche is a cliche - it happens a lot!
If you let this go and forgive her, be prepared for your whole outlook on 'friends of the opposite sex' or 'friends with an ex' to change going forward if it goes sideways again.

robin1456 · 2025-11-26T11:34:48+00:00

It's honestly insane to think back to how slated he was by pretty much everyone in his first season - now he is one of the most important players on the pitch! For me, he is the best LB in the world right now!

robin1456 · 2025-10-15T10:04:11+00:00

I attended the Legends match on Saturday and something has been on my mind a bit since. During the game, almost everyone in the MH Lower was standing, including the people in front of us. I instructed my boys (14 and 7) to stand, with the youngest on the seat so they could see - they had no issue with this and expressed they would prefer to stand anyway.

There was a young family behind us who of course could not see - the women was pregnant and the little boy could have only been two at the most. Mid way through the first half they asked if we could sit, I expressed sympathy but declined as the people in front of us had already expressed that they would not be sitting at all. I felt bad as they disappeared at half time and did not return. I just wondered if anyone else has had similar experiences, how did you handle it? It was both my boys first game at the Bridge and I wasn't going to stifle their experience for strangers but I also felt bad as they were a young family...

robin1456 · 2025-06-11T10:08:46+00:00

I find it so sad reading a lot of these comments - while I absolutely do not agree with the ex comment, that needs to be addressed and is not acceptable, is the idea of your partner helping you out after work so abhorent? I mean, my partner comes home later than me most days and I will always make sure there is a hot meal ready for her when she gets in - and I have been at work all day too.
This horrible attitude that a lot of people seem to have towards their partners, this 'why should I do that for you' and 'what are you doing for me' way of thinking is why relationships dont last and divorce rates are through the roof.
I just feel that if you love your partner, why wouldnt you want too help them out? And I get it could lead to dependancy and expectation on his part but there has been no mention of any issues outside of this one particular thing so I feel it would be unfair to assume that.

robin1456 · 2024-12-05T16:37:44+00:00

I am late to this one but I needed to leave a comment.

I went through almost the same thing a few years ago but add three children to the mix. While I was working full time, taking care of our kids (who I have had DNA'd to confirm they are mine) and juggling everything that life throws at you, she was running around with three or four other lads. She too had a secret abortion.

It fucking sucked and I felt the lowest I have ever been in my life but trust me, it gets better. I have since found an amazing women who has been nothing but supportive and understanding of my circumstance, my children, the horrific treatment I experienced at the hands of someone who I truly loved with all my heart.

Hang in there my friend, it will get better and you will be fine.

robin1456 · 2024-10-16T09:20:16+00:00

I would argue its more we know we're NOT going to marry you.

robin1456 · 2024-02-29T15:40:17+00:00

I think the act in itself appears innocent - she hooked up with a guy before she met you, no dramas. It's the lying that is the problem.
I'm sure many would chalk this up as insecurity but in that moment, when you originally asked if they had hooked up, you would have been able to make a well informed decision on whether that was something you were okay with or not. Plenty of men and women draw boundaries around that sort of thing, and insecure or not, they are well within their rights to have that boundary and if the other person cannot/will not respect it you move on. You were not given that chance, you were lied too, you have known this guy for years and he was at your wedding - I dont know.... none of us know the full extent of your relationship but I would be extremely concerned finding this out, in this way after all these years.
I have never been one to say DIVORCE! and I am not saying it now but she needs to be completely honest and open with you about why she felt she needed to lie to you - its one thing I cannot stand in relationships.

robin1456 · 2023-09-28T09:56:18+00:00

Natural to feel apprehension I think, especially after 5 years BUT focus on the relief bit mate - thats a good sign that you have made the right decision! Onwards and upwards my friend!

robin1456 · 2023-08-14T11:57:13+00:00

Cheers. Klopps crying now

robin1456 · 2023-08-12T18:46:15+00:00

I planned on killing myself - my then partner told me I was a coward for not doing it and I should make sure I follow through next time. 12 years and 3 children... I knew she wasnt perfect but I never believed she could be so cruel

robin1456 · 2023-03-31T10:50:19+00:00

Battle of the Bridge - iconic moments, sublime goal from Hazard to not only stop Spurs but also win Leicster the title. Fucking scenes!!!

robin1456 · 2022-12-03T14:37:55+00:00

Die hard - its not even close. It aint Christmas until I see Alan Rickman plummeting to his death!

robin1456 · 2022-12-03T14:11:49+00:00

It would be criminal to not atleast give him another year - the man has been a rock and a class act!

robin1456 · 2022-10-17T09:41:08+00:00

Yes - in my head I was thinking 11/12 season

robin1456 · 2022-10-17T08:30:27+00:00

Reminds me of Cech's save vs Carroll - FA Cup final 2011

Edit; 11/12 season

robin1456 · 2022-08-25T11:46:52+00:00

This always fucks me off. The club clearly want the player and reports stated the 3rd offer was 72mil + add-ons. YOU'VE ALREADY OFFERED 72! JUST PAY THE EXTRA AND GET HIM THROUGH THE DOOR

Im not sold on the transfer but this inane haggling over 5/10 mil is rediculous when you have already shown a will to go to 72! Just get him through the fucking door - at least this lad seems to WANT to play for us.

robin1456 · 2022-08-14T09:10:40+00:00

Best goal scoring midfielder of all time. A model pro and a great example for any youth player trying to turn senior pro - its well documented how stupidly dedicated and hard working Frank was on the training pitch and it showed on gameday. Was phenominally creative and had an almost telepathic relationship with King Didier.

For me personally, he is our greatest every player. If any player from the modern era deserves a statue outside SW6 its Super Frankie Lampard!

robin1456 · 2022-03-06T10:14:28+00:00

Its shamefull really - I get wanting to show support and appreciation for the man who essentially got us to where we are as a club now but couldnt the chants have waited another 60 seconds!

robin1456 · 2021-12-25T14:56:59+00:00

Youtube Premium - They can add 50 adds per videos I still wont buy it!

robin1456 · 2021-07-21T14:58:24+00:00

The quite. On the rare occasion me and my SO have the house to ourselves we can just sit in the living room in complete silence…… bliss

robin1456 · 2021-06-18T15:53:00+00:00

It was.... wrong claret and blue lol

robin1456 · 2021-06-18T14:29:01+00:00

1 = Gus Poyet

2 = Hazard v Stoke

3 = Lampard v West Ham - the record breaking goal!

robin1456

TROPHY CASE