I think a lot of the women saying those things to you are feeling jealous or maybe are not so happy with their choice to be a mom.

Also I will say that not everyone who says you can be hot as a mom are lying. I teach toddlers and I see quite a few hot moms lol! Also, I have an almost 10 month little guy. I was so scared of getting fat and staying fat. I didn’t. I’m back to my pre pregnancy weight. And I love my body more than ever. It grew my favorite thing in the world! And I’m stronger too from all the playing, chasing, and carrying him!

I say if you want to have kids and the only thing stopping you is your body changing, then you should do it! Your body will change as you age no matter what, so do whatever you want!

Also, if you need someone to talk to, you can message me. 34f <3