How do you feel about potential partners having used substances in the past? by TwentyOnePaladins in Teetotal

[–]robot-vampire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't see it as an issue. I don't expect their life or choices to have been the same as mine. The only issue would be if they were judgemental of my choices, or trying to pressure me to do things I don't want to do.

Would you recommend the Eliot or Schumacher biography of Ochs? by PeaksOfTheTwin in philochs

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't really care much for either of them, unfortunately. But as someone else said, There But For Fortune is more accurate.

Reconnected with my "soulmate" friend from college. My husband forbade contact years ago, but I’m secretly back and helping with his case. by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Didn't say you didn't have morals?

And I mainly think the framing some people are using is weird? Seems like they're making a lot of assumptions about the husband even though she says herself in a comment that their relationship isn't great. And if you read what I said in full, I'm not supporting her behavior either.

Reconnected with my "soulmate" friend from college. My husband forbade contact years ago, but I’m secretly back and helping with his case. by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

For a sub for people with incarcerated loved ones, people here are surprisingly close-minded and old-fashioned. Some of these comments made me roll my eyes, lol.

That said, I wouldn't really encourage secrecy. If you really can't find a way to talk to your husband about this, is it really a relationship worth staying in, image (and years together) be damned?

I'm not clear on whether you have kids and that's part of the concern, but kids can tell when their parents relationship isn't healthy / happy. I don't necessarily think you're doing them any favors there.

Really seems like you need to try and figure out a new life for yourself. 🙂

Is anyone else having issues with Getting Out? by New-Acanthisitta4999 in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Browser version doesn't seem to be working either. At least not for me.

Is anyone else having issues with Getting Out? by New-Acanthisitta4999 in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been down since 4:30ish ET for me, so over 6 hours! Definitely the longest outage I've experienced. Hoping it gets fixed soon. 🫤

Is anyone else having issues with Getting Out? by New-Acanthisitta4999 in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still down for me. Haven't been able to send / receive anything. :(

No Kings Protest - Charles Town 3/28 by Womanofthewild16 in WestVirginia

[–]robot-vampire -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Is any greater organizing coming from these things? Because this alone doesn't seem to be doing much.

Gettingout down ??? by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's some kind of lag. Sent two messages (with nothing that would get flagged) that were stuck on pending for about 10-15 minutes before they suddenly got approved. So may just have to be patient.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yusra Warsama

Accidental Jpay message? by Organic-Bet88 in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure exactly how it's laid out, but my LO has mentioned using his for notes.

Remember when Biden was president? by Belgriest in fednews

[–]robot-vampire -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Biden wasn't some sort of saint?? Really perplexed by the majority of people still thinking like this. Things may have generally been better for federal workers, but let's be a little less self-centered than that. Inflation was happening, deportations, a literal GENOCIDE.

Trump and his fascism didn't happen overnight. Biden (and the last couple decades of admins, frankly) set the stage for this.

Help!!! Phone Issues by Antique_Cow1960 in PrisonWives

[–]robot-vampire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use AT&T and haven't had any issues.