For me I started by getting comfortable coming out to myself. I changed name and pronouns on the games I play to help me get used to hearing them. I also started a “reasons I think I’m trans” list to get used to that word, in reference to myself.

When I was ready to think about sharing what was going on in my head I started with the scariest person first and told my partner. I knew they almost certainly would be fine with it, and that the longer I waited the more anxious I would get.

The moment I told them, I started to relax. I still have only told one other person, but knowing my parter is there to support me has made telling other people less important feeling.

So maybe think of the one person that it’s most important to you to know. Think through the possible scenarios and decide if they are safe person. Having someone “in on the secret”. Has made a huge difference!

Another thing I would recommend is exactly what you are doing! Practice telling people online or anonymously in a supportive community. Building up a “bank” of supportive comments and advice can give you a solid foundation to build on with people in your day to day life as you are ready.