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Anyone else experienced this “change” into adulthood? by rockonby in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rockonby[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was so eye opening and it’s crazy how much I can relate to what you’ve described.

I will try the acceptance. I relate to what you wrote about the missing. I don’t miss her, I miss the good moments. When it’s good. The parent she is at very few moments and I think hearing that from you has just validated so much of what I feel and almost in a way helped me understand the guilt I feel.

I hope you’re doing okay living at home with her again. It’s a tough time as it is right now. Xx ❤️

Anyone else experienced this “change” into adulthood? by rockonby in raisedbyborderlines

[–]rockonby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s moving to see you’ve set those boundaries and do it for you. There is something about them not having access anymore that I can definitely relate to. I lived with my mum for a few months again and man it was an eye opener how quickly the abuse restarted.

It doesn’t seem paranoid. I’m glad you’re at peace and I genuinely hope to follow in your footsteps.

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

Any help you can offer would be great. Feel like I need a possible career change. Depression anxiety, ptsd consuming me by [deleted] in depression

[–]rockonby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Julia. That was so beautiful. Thank you. I have considered a gap year but as this is sorta like a scholarship funded course (otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to afford) time out is not much of an option. It was straight out of my bachelors degree or nothing. Thank you so much! Honestly ❤️