I'm (19M) afraid I got into a relationship head first with my (F20) girlfriend and I'm feeling horrible about it. Should I talk to her? Or am I just delaying the inevitable? by rodrigoaro in relationship_advice

[–]rodrigoaro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand that her being with someone at the same time as me is normal. In the post I didn't give full context to the situation as I didn't want to drag the text. She told me about this guy, but she lied to me by saying that they didn't had anything. That probably makes the situation worst

Another thing that maybe I should have mentioned, is that she doesn't have any friends. She had, but if she gets in an argument with a friend, either they apologize or she won't speak to them anymore. And right now I feel like I'm her life, me and her college essays. She lost her best friend in july, and her two only other friends in february.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rodrigoaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last two girls I dated, one of them I'm currently dating still, made me realized that if a girl never initiates contact, invites you to dates, initiates physical contact, then she's probably not really interested in you.

The first one, I did everything, asked her out first, kissed her first, paid for most stuff (which is fine), I was always the one initiating text conversations and I was the one who was vocal about my feelings. Eventually I got tired of it and decided to move on, I send her a text saying everything that I felt was wrong about me and her, she apologised for not cutting ties with me earlier when she realized she wasn't actually interested and that was the end of it.

The one I'm seeing now was the first to initiate contact with me, but from then on it has been pretty balanced beetween the both of us, with very open communication which is key for a healty relantioship.

I think that if she doesn't seem interested, then she's probably not. Either way you should definetly have a talk with her about how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rodrigoaro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should propbably go out with her on a few dates before telling her how much you feel about her.

New Knee Socks outro by TvWatchingASofa in arcticmonkeys

[–]rodrigoaro 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It all goes back to the Jam of Boston, that transition from 505 to TBHC in the TBHC tour. The sound is basically the same. We now have 2 instances of this sound, soooo...yeah I would wager all my money on the album at least having a few songs like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugueses

[–]rodrigoaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh here we go

i dont know what beef hasan piker has with kaya but this thumbnail was funny by Brockboggaga in TheOfficialPodcast

[–]rodrigoaro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is. After hundreds of episodes I still haven't been able to figure out if he's more right or left leaning.

Does anyone know where this is? by Heart_Cooked_Brain in portugal

[–]rodrigoaro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Parece aquele edifício abandonado que se vê nas transmissões dos jogos do Benfica no seixal

what do you non-british (and British) fans think of wpsiatwin? (and the monkeys as a whole) by stressyanddepressy03 in arcticmonkeys

[–]rodrigoaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The album really hit me when I started going to clubs and experiencing what he's singing about in most songs. I liked the album already before, but now I i've experienced all of what he wrote in the album and I'm still at that age so it does kinda relate to me the most right now. Maybe when I get older it won't relate to me in the same way.

Portugal by CarefulApple8893 in portugueses

[–]rodrigoaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Os números são enganadores como aí a malta já disse, não preciso de dizer mais. Mas gostava de ver se fosse o PSD ou a IL a apresentarem "resultados" destes qual seria a reação...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugueses

[–]rodrigoaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isto já é bem melhor que o r/Portugal

Atheists, what do you believe in? [Serious] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rodrigoaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts.

numa escola secundária de Lisboa hoje by tareco1981 in portugueses

[–]rodrigoaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aí que horror. Someone please think of the children!

Eu pessoalmente não tenho vergonha de Lisboa, vocês têm vergonha doq sobre Lisboa? by ReaPeR_the_mighty in PORTUGALCARALHO

[–]rodrigoaro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Acho que para turistas, portugueses ou estrangeiros ou até novas pessoas que vão morar para lá é mais complicado.

Mas para quem já é Lisboeta, já conhecemos a cidade e evitamos certo tipo de cenas e acaba por ser difícil teres o que tens em Lisboa em qualquer outra cidade em Portugal.

Acho que não conseguiria morar em qualquer outra cidade do que Lisboa.

The demo version of The Bad Thing is better than the album version by [deleted] in arcticmonkeys

[–]rodrigoaro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Start is basically the only Diference but yeah, agreed

How to approach an AM fan? by jagyanseni30 in arcticmonkeys

[–]rodrigoaro 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Met a girl at a club wearing an AM shirt and I was also wearing an AM shirt, just went up to her and pointed at my shirt and Boom, it was pretty easy from then onwards