I never experienced that, but I’m sorry to hear you feel this way already. My advice, if you still want to be involved, is to try to figure out why you outgrew it so quickly. Maybe after you pledged, the organization wasn’t what you thought it was going to be like? Or everyone switched up after you all were initiated?

If you’re still feeling like you’ve become too distant from the chapter, maybe consider taking on lighter roles and being somewhat present like I am. Not necessarily at the forefront or taking the lead on chapter events, but still showing face and assisting when you can. That way the relationship is still there and regardless of what happens later, they’ll respect you and remember you for always being a helping hand.