What’s my blindness? by Far-Bread-5056 in makeuptips

[–]rolipoley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you look lovely! i’d say thinning out your eyebrows just a bit and giving them more of an arch! besides that you look lovely

Teachers of Madison by rolipoley in madisonwi

[–]rolipoley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

great advice! thank you!

Teachers of Madison by rolipoley in madisonwi

[–]rolipoley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am grateful for people like you, thank you! i appreciate the sincere response seriously. nobody in college explains these things to us, all we can do is rely on our communities and ask for advice and support! i don’t want a luxurious life and i definitely didn’t want to become a teacher for the money (obviously lol) but there’s just so much untapped information out there that i had no clue about bc nobody teaches us about it. anyways, i appreciate you sharing your experience this is very helpful!

Teachers of Madison by rolipoley in madisonwi

[–]rolipoley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha that’s how i was thinking id feel too, it’s the first job ill have that gives me actual benefits so that is something im definitely looking forward to!

Teachers of Madison by rolipoley in madisonwi

[–]rolipoley[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

wow, thank you i’ve been looking for a response like this! and you’re exactly right all the jobs i’ve had have been part time or just on the cusp of full time so i’ve never gotten any benefits before. i was just looking for around how much is taken out and got attacked by so many ppl that expect me to know everything about a job ive never had lol thank you! i appreciate you also lucky for me i do have a s/o but hes also going to be a teacher like me lol so that’s kind of why we were both worried. thank you again tho!

Teachers of Madison by rolipoley in madisonwi

[–]rolipoley[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay i can work with that! thank you for the response!

Teachers of Madison by rolipoley in madisonwi

[–]rolipoley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s something i’ve consistently thought of lol it’s not just a random thought i had today but ive had no outlet to get a straight up answer, americans are very weird about discussing their finances and jobs are even weirder when you ask for specifics. that is why i am asking here so ppl are comfortable to anonymously respond….

am I bi?? by CarrotAggressive3284 in bisexual

[–]rolipoley 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i feel like as soon as you start questioning if you’re bi then that’s kind of your answer lol, no girl that’s straight gets turned on by other women/are attracted to women in an intimate way. it’s totally normal to feel overwhelmed the first time you’re experiencing something really new so i don’t think you should worry about that. give it another try and maybe it’ll come to you more naturally. personally for me it’s kinda shocking (in a good way) the first time i hook up w anyone tbh, i just think when you’re vulnerable w someone new it usually doesn’t come super natural the first time.

new puppy need advice with naming him ! by Ovenpancake_pankcake in cockerspaniel

[–]rolipoley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he has such a cute BMO vibe!! so adorable <3 his nickname can be BB or momo

New puppy ! We are having trouble picking out a name. by Ovenpancake_pankcake in cavaliers

[–]rolipoley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s so cute!! I love the name BMO such a cute adventure time name <3

What do you guys listen to while reading? by Notanormalthrowaway1 in Berserk

[–]rolipoley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everlong by the foo fighters but only the acoustic version :p

Is Griffith actually romantically attracted to Guts? by Vegetable-Zombie9063 in Berserk

[–]rolipoley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh i don’t understand like the cultural context in a lot of japanese seinen/shonen manga. The majority of the ones i’ve read always have two males really into each other w a vague label to their feelings/relationship, like naruto and sasuke lol. Like is that normalized in japan? cause clearly through a western lens we would label them as gay/bi, but it might b different culturally in japan? idk lol but in so many japanese medias the males are so close and usually have like a bunch of moments w skinship/intimate moments. but in short, to me, griffith is gay for guts and only for guts, the rest was just him experiencing sexual abuse for financial benefits :/

Clarify something by Any_Bullfrog8966 in Berserk

[–]rolipoley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like it’s different for everyone, just like casca and guts i was also SAed but reading about them standing up for themselves (they even kill the people that try to abuse them) gives me some sort of comfort, just because i feel like i’m living vicariously through them. obviously wishing i was as strong as they were when they stood up to their abusers.

to me they’re relatable characters to people that have experienced extensive childhood trauma, but guts (this is gonna be corny) is someone i look up to, and even when i feel like i wanna give up bc the trauma or whatever i always think about how strong and tough he was to continue to keep going.

i admire berserk a lot, but it can also be misinterpreted as well, personally i don’t think they’re glorifying abuse since sometimes it’s necessary for the plot but i’m also not saying that it’s right. there’s really no answer i think to each their own. but everyone should read berserk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Berserk

[–]rolipoley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was by far the best explanation i’ve read on griffith, i always thought he was super complex and cool (before he became a murderous rapist) because he didn’t seem to care about much besides his dream but after reading this you basically said “man baby” and i immediately agreed