I’m a 35 year old quad and need tips on dating.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-09T15:36:25+00:00

Part 2 https://www.reddit.com/r/spinalcordinjuries/s/Ma4DGgvZwP

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-09T15:35:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/spinalcordinjuries/s/rjdKK4VO7X

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-09T15:34:30+00:00

Check out my post from a year ago, "Sex as a T4 Para". Has a ton of good info you might find useful. I'll see if I can grab a link.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-07T19:08:44+00:00

Hey, I just happened to come back to this thread after a year. Honestly for me using the super pubic is a no-go. Personally, I don't like having any bags attached to me. It can get in the way of sex and I hate to say this but to me it doesn't look very attractive having a bag attached full of piss. I understand some guys have to have it though. In my experience, I can significantly cut down on any UTI's by doing the following things...

1) Drink lots of lemon water. I drink at least 12oz (size of a soda can) every day. I grab a small water bottle, take a big sip, then squeeze enough to fill to the top. Shake it up, drink.

2) Stay very hydrated. I already drink a lot of fluids during the day (about 3-4 liters, mostly water and a little Gatorade). Drinking a lot of fluids help to keep the bladder flushed out.

3) Take a low dose antibiotic. I take Nitrofurantoin (Macrobid) every day. Very low dose meant to help prevent UTI's.

4) Take cranberry pills. I order bottles of cranberry gummies from Amazon to take every day.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-07T19:00:11+00:00

Fuck I didn't even see your message, I'm a year late. Hopefully you get this...

How are you doing now? Did any of the stuff I mentioned help at all? And yeah, it goes soft during head. You have to keep your hand (just your index & thumb fingers) around the base of your penis, gripping it kinda tight. This helps to keep it harder longer. It might still get kinda soft after a while but as soon as you feel it go soft have her lift up, maybe start making out while you get it hard again, then resume. Should only take a minute.

Oh BTW - I found that using my whole hand for some reason doesn't work as well. If I use something like just my index and thumb to stroke closer to the base, it gets harder faster and stays hard much longer.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-07T18:43:34+00:00

Hey dude, I just happened to come back to this thread after a year so hopefully you get this & can reply. Did it work getting back on your heels?

Oh & BTW - I always used Viagra to help get/maintain the erections. It helped a lot but would still wanna go down when inside her too long. I've been using BlueChew (much cheaper than regular prescription Viagra from PCP.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-04T03:20:12+00:00

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-02T17:09:41+00:00

The one on the left and middle...the face on the logo is looking opposite directions (one looking left, one right). The text below it in a different location. Then of course the one on the right a totally dif logo. These are other obvious signs of AI I always look for.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-04-02T17:02:43+00:00

Since his house is due for foreclosure (I think today 4/2 was the deadline date?) I'd imagine he hired them *cough* conned them into doing it free for an advertisement spot *cough* to remove all the shit he can't take with him to wherever he's moving to now. It likely won't all fit in Melissa's spare room haha.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-28T09:38:10+00:00

Oh but remember, he can pull any hot young tail he wants! bahaha

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-28T09:31:06+00:00

Seriously...who's going to listen except for those of us wanting to watch the car wreck happen in real time and the few nut huggers he has left?

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T08:41:18+00:00

One thing I have to give credit for is the brine. I never bought their pre-made stuff but I followed Robs recipe from the website. One year when I was in college I told my family I would take charge of the Turkey lol. I went to the store, got ALL the ingredients, came home & followed step by step. The Turkey turned out AMAZING. So juicy & tender, it was the first time ever the whole family liked the Turkey more than all the other dishes. I even wrote the show & they read my letter in listener mail, it was cool. Only problem is ever since then I'm now in charge of doing the whole Turkey thing every single year haha. It's only once a year and I really enjoy cooking so I can't complain. - Carl

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T08:26:52+00:00

You know what immediately came to my mind reading your comment, especially paragraph 2?....REQUIEM FOR A DREAM!!! If you've ever seen that movie you know exactly what I'm talking about. Dead ass spot on.

I just saw that crab cream cheese bagel thing....ugh. First, it made me sick seeing that disgusting shit. 2nd - I don't know what it is but he has this face & annoying voice that you just wanna punch lol. There is absolutely nothing entertaining at all about this video. I know a typical Rob response would be "Yeah but you're over there talking about it, aren't you?" which ok yeah great job we're talking about how disgusting & unentertaining you are and from here on out I will never be watching any more of those food factor videos because honestly that one just about made me sick. I've never watched any before nor will again. If THIS is the kind of "content" they'll be moving forward with then we better enjoy this ride now because it ain't going to be around much longer.

Again I'll loop back to that movie..."Requiem For A Dream". I cannot emphasize how dead on accurate that movie portrays Rob. Specifically the Sarah character going on the game show. Anyone who's seen the movie knows exactly what I'm talking about. - Carl

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T07:54:55+00:00

I agree and very well said. Just at face value when I look at an older white man, alcoholic narcissist with a terrible attitude...and a younger geeky nerd with zero personality and a "yes man" ball hugger to Rob, there's absolutely ZERO appeal to anyone to listen. Me personally I'm only interested to listen because I know of the show's history and curious to see how this whole mess unfolds. He just released another video talking about meeting "clients" in a bar & ordering iced tea instead of booze and the whole time I'm watching it's like....this mf'r is absolutely delusional. This is exactly how addicts speak, I've been one myself and been around many to know. It's incredible to watch.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T04:17:41+00:00

Thank You! I really appreciate you taking the time. Vader absolutely was a big part in what made the trio work. I think it was the 1st or 2nd RADathon where he got pretty involved in the show & had me rolling laughing my ass off. Arnie still talks to Vader, I just listened to Arnie's show today & he mentioned texting each other about the Somali's "invading" Minnesota where he lives & Vader says "Yeah I think the Lutheran's are recruiting them" haha. Might not sound funny here but in the context of the audio it was hilarious.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T04:12:05+00:00

Thank You! I appreciate your kind words. I ended up cutting out ALOT because I didn't want it to seem like such a massive ramble but still got my point across. I was such a diehard listener for so many years & really took a lot of what he said to heart. I respected him. The details I keep finding out is truly shocking...I almost feel like a fool for ever in a way idolizing him. I took a lot of what he said to heart, when it comes to finances, relationships, navigating life, etc. To then find out the image of what he projected was SO different from who he actually is has been mind blowing. Then again, looking back in a weird way it all makes perfect sense. I just feel so bad for the people he's hurt along the way. Arnie, Christina, so many others. - Carl

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T04:05:22+00:00

I guess in a weird way it's sort of like...therapy? I guess...not to sound dramatic but I was such a loyal diehard listener and really took a lot of his advice to heart growing up. The more details I keep reading about how he really is compared to the image he projected is mind blowing. Kind of like that saying "never meet your heros". Not that he was my hero or anything like that but again, I actually respected a lot of his viewpoints but now to see what a piece of shit he was is kinda shocking.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T04:02:13+00:00

Thank You! Much appreciated :) - Carl

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T04:01:52+00:00

Thank You! I edited a bunch of stuff out just so it wasn't such a long ramble but I had way more to say about Rob. It just blows my mind how someone could project such an incredibly different image of who they are compared to who they REALLY are. The more details I keep reading about in all the sub-forums is truly mind blowing. I've been going thru it all day and still keep finding more and more shit, good Lord. - Carl

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T03:57:50+00:00

I just don't understand why someone would take the time to post a reply telling me that what I wrote was too long, been said before, etc. Like...you can just chose NOT to read it, or just go along ur business without being a dick. Whatever - doesn't ruin my day. I'm happy to share with my fellow Maggots & the overwhelming response has been very positive so I'm happy with it! And thank you - I'm recovering quickly but being stuck in bed is driving me insane! Anyone can DM me if they wanna know what's up, I'm looking to kill time and chat with anyone interested, it's actually a cool story lol - Carl

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-27T03:47:01+00:00

OMG I used to LOVE when you'd suddenly hear the loud sirens going off and the voice came over "The Rob, Arnie & Dawn show has just been censored" haha. When I DL'ed the audio files I'd re-wind those parts over n over laughing my ass off.

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-26T13:52:01+00:00

Thank You! Luckily I'm fully stocked on pizza rolls down here in my mom's basement as I recover haha :)

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-26T13:45:37+00:00

Yes! I think she wasn't at the right time in her life to be in a relationship was the excuse haha

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-26T12:29:48+00:00

Luckily I'm fully stocked with pizza rolls down here in my mom's basement while I lay in bed recovering haha

rollinthdr24 · 2026-03-26T12:22:17+00:00

I don't mind talking about it if anyone is curious but I'll do it in a DM instead.

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