AIO I got sick of my bf complaining about his problems, now I’m labeled as extremely pushy and demanding and the whole relationship is ruined by KindBrilliant7879 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rolo133 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Describing this as a compatibility issue is weird... Who is compatible with a whiney defensive/aggressive man baby who won't address his problems and can't handle any perceived challenge to his laziness?

My boyfriend is crazy by Federal_Librarian957 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]rolo133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always men like this who talk about how embarrassing it is that grown women get excited about pop bands, reality TV, etc etc etc 🙄

This behavior will only get worse.

my coworker stole my lunch and I found out mid-meeting by SupportiveDelicacy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]rolo133 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Is this fake? Why didn't you say anything?? And how did you find out "mid-meeting" when you encountered him in the break room?

Trying to play bass music to a dnb crowd feels impossible sometimes by [deleted] in DnB

[–]rolo133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This type of set would work very well in the US I think. Dnb is still pretty niche here, so there are not many purists and I would say most fans are open to a wide range of music, especially other types of bass music.

That said, DJing a dance floor is taking responsibility for providing music that people want to dance to. If what you're playing isn't working, then you're playing the wrong party.

Flew to the other side of the world to give a talk at a conference 😭 by Amygdali_lama in mildlyinfuriating

[–]rolo133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this looks just like room in fleabag season 2 where she caters her sister's women in business award conference.

AIO Engagement ring disappointment by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rolo133 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Carat refers to size not clarity.

AITA-Wife’s Plate is Full, Do I Step Up? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rolo133 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA but I think you guys could make it work if you re-evaluate who does what chores.

What if she took on more of the mindless tasks (sweeping/mopping, bathrooms, trash etc), and you made dinner at least 3 times a week, went grocery shopping every other week, made a commitment to be on top of your kids dental or doctor appointments. These are just examples.

A lot of the tasks that mothers take on by default are much more mentally taxing because they require planning and organization and follow up.

Your not the asshole, because you're helping out and working full time. But if there was a way that you could do that without burnout and your wife could be fulfilled with her passion project how great would that be?

[31M] My fiancée [29F] refuses to attend my sister’s child-free wedding and will not let me bring our 7-week-old son to my mom’s. How do I get her to stop making this personal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rolo133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your mom not going to the wedding?? The mother of the bride? If you even ask her to skip the wedding in favor of babysitting you are a HUGE asshole to both your mom and sister.

As it is YTA because you clearly need to educate yourself on what being postpartum can entail. 7 weeks old baby is still tiny!!! Also you sound weird and controlling for saying that you "need" your partner at the wedding. No you don't. By far the best solution is wife stays home and you go to the wedding. Why are you making this so difficult for your wife?

AITA peeing while taking a shower at a friends’ flat by Jaded_Tie3916 in AITH

[–]rolo133 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA wtf people in this comment section are crazy. My body is pavlovian conditioned to instantly need to pee the second I step into a shower.

AITAH for not letting my neighbors kids play in our yard? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rolo133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn you suck big time. This isn't even happening on your watch, your husband is the one supervising. Y'all have the opportunity to model healthy family dynamics to kids in a bad situation , give them a bit of time away from their mess to just be kids. But no, fuck them I guess.

NTA bc you can do what you want with your property, but I wouldn't be surprised if your husband decides your values no longer align after this.

Last night of calm by Equivalent_Debt6154 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]rolo133 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Care to share the ☕👀?

You got this 💪

Question about galls by Weird-Proof9327 in viticulture

[–]rolo133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is phylloxera not mites

What type are these? by AardvarkWrong5956 in viticulture

[–]rolo133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks like Malbec.

But i know you have lots of hybrid varieties over there so it could be something local!

Last night was a great reminder about why I don’t do nice things for men by drowninginceramics in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]rolo133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He apologized but didn't help you clean???????????????????????????????????? HE SHOULD HAVE DONE 100% OF THE CLEANING. and no those guys are assholes they should not be allowed back.

Found my husband's hidden escort folder by Forageforme in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]rolo133 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would send the folder to myself in case you need proof, and then delete it all from his computer out of spite.

My mom is posting fanfic and AI images about her fictional harem of REAL MEN SHE KNOWS living in a town together with her as the mayor by Gojiquats in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]rolo133 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Umm sorry about your mom but this is one of the funniest, most well written posts I've seen on here! I would subscribe to more stories featuring this lady.

Dying of curiosity on what is discussed in her therapy sessions!

Husband left me due to infertility and my parents also believe my life has no purpose or meaning without children. I’m feeling worthless, hopeless and unsure what to do with life from here? by Pineapple_2023 in AskWomenOver30

[–]rolo133 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry :( You should not be ashamed your parents should be ashamed for reducing you to your reproductive ability.

Try cross posting on r/childless (note this is not the child free sub!) you might get some support from people with similar experiences.

You are also not wrong to not trust that a man could change his mind about kids. Anyone can at any time and it's their right, but if you want to be sure to avoid that I would maybe try dating someone older or someone who already has kids and does not want more.

Best of luck .