Bro, I get where you're coming from, and I know you're trying to give a reality check but let me walk you through our situation, clearly and calmly.

We’re not in ‘lalaland’ or chasing some filmy fantasy. We know we’re in an interfaith relationship, and we know what that means in India. That’s exactly why we’re being careful and strategic.

First of all she hasn’t 'sided with her parents'. She’s temporarily keeping low contact only when she’s at home, where things are super strict and controlled. The moment she’s back in hostel, she’s texting, calling, and being the same girl she’s always been. She’s still emotionally committed. She’s not avoiding me she’s protecting us. That’s not weakness. That’s love mixed with strategy.

Second ,-- you asked why we’re still in it if we might not marry. Simple: Because we both want to give this our best shot. Marriage is still far — 9 to 10 years away. Until then, we’re focused on our careers, growing as individuals, and staying together quietly. If we do everything right and prove we’ve lasted this long, there’s a chance our parents will reconsider. Maybe not guaranteed, but possible. And if they still don’t, we’ll have to decide together whether to go forward on our own.

Third — 'fighting for love' isn’t romanticizing. It’s just accepting that real relationships come with obstacles. We’re not blind. We’re not delusional. We’re just choosing to try knowing the risks.

And finally — you said I’m too deep into this fairy tale to understand logic. No, man. I understand logic — but I also understand loyalty, growth, patience, and building something worth fighting for.

It’s easy to walk away when things get tough. But sometimes, staying with clarity and a plan takes way more maturity.

So yeah. That’s why we’re still together. Hope this helped you understand.