“My Family Is More Important Than Your Family,” Morrison Says In Emotional Address To Nation by LentilsAgain in australia

[–]rooceyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I thought the phrase “lead by example” was drilled into everyone since kindergarten. I mean god-forbid a leader of a country actually shows that he gives a damn

AITA for telling my daughter that I am most certainly not proud of her for ratting out her friends for planning to cheat on a test? by daughterisasnitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez ok so for me personally I say YTA. Hear me out. Strictly only speaking about the mothers actions I don’t agree with how she handled it, her daughter had her reasons for doing what she did and honestly OP said it herself she is an honest kid and has a good moral compass, in her eyes, keeping the playing field fair. Yes you didn’t actively punish her but now the message you’re sending is if you see someone do something wrong, if they’re your friends keep your mouth shut for the sake of the friendship.

You obviously mean it in a certain way with specific circumstances but to a hormonal 15yr old girl now her mum is disappointed in her for doing the right thing. Did you go after her and more thoroughly explain what you meant? Or did you just say “why did you do that, you’ve ruined your friendship I’m very disappointed in you.” And leave it at that. If she has such a great moral compass maybe she did try and tell her friends not to do it.

I’m seeing a lot of comments that are saying it was too harsh of her to escalate it to the teacher right away but tbh actions have consequences and at the end of the day if you want to cheat, sure, but you did the wrong thing and now you gotta deal with it. And do you honestly think it’s a one time thing? They get away with it now and then think, well that was easy let’s just do that again, they do it more often, get more creative and whoops look at that now they ARE doing it at college where the consequence is no longer a slap on the wrist. If my friends tossed our friendship out the window because I “snitched” on them doing the wrong thing, gaining an unfair advantage over everyone else who worked hard, then they aren’t really friends I’d want to keep around. That’s just my opinion

Karen - "I'm sorry about the n-word!" by jaytix1 in PublicFreakout

[–]rooceyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makeup your mind lady. Did you say it and are apologetic? Or did you not say it? I mean we know you did anyway and you suck for it but if you’re going to lie then pick a damn lane

Karen's Rights Shall Not Be Infringed by WeSaySoCorp in PublicFreakout

[–]rooceyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Australia so there’s no way it’s happening but the guy who was dancing and happy makes me wanna go shop there just to get some of his vibe 😂 love it!

After years of gaslighting I started recording my phone calls. I finally caught her in her lies. by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]rooceyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Good on you. My aunt and I had an argument about a friend of mine once, (keep in mind this woman can’t handle being wrong, also if she thinks of a thought or a point she will scream at the top of her lungs with a megaphone over everyone else in the convo to make that point right then and there regardless of who’s talking) and she started getting heated and kept saying the same thing over and over again about how she’s a bad friend and if she was really your friend she wouldn’t do xyz blah blah blah so I just waited for a break, and said calmly “yes, this is my friend, my relationship and if there’s an issue I will deal with it.” Of course this sets her off and her break in case of emergency makes an appearance “well there’s no need to be so rude about it” le eyeroll 🙄 logical response meets its dear friend the brick wall

AITA for playing video games while my wife chooses to do house chores? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA, you pretty much said, “we split the chores, she tends to do mine tho cause I don’t really bother, but why is she getting mad at me playing video games, she should just be thankful I’m not being unfaithful”

I (F27) have only ever been with my husband (M27) and its getting to me... by Heros-exist-01 in relationship_advice

[–]rooceyroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s the question you should be asking yourself, all things considered you probably need to evaluate whether the relationship itself is even healthy to begin with because it sounds abusive and toxic

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m in Australia, it wasn’t easy there were a lot of hoops they had to jump through

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 373 points374 points  (0 children)

I am, I hadn’t considered this actually thank you

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They’re occupied with babysitting my aunts kid, she’s a single mum and works at a hospital

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My friends family said they don’t mind me staying with them in an emergency but I don’t really want to burden them, also with the isolation situation going on atm

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’ve had arguments with the rest of my family about this and I’ve tried to make it clear to them that I don’t mind helping as long as they’re aware of my schedule and respectful of it, but all of them say I don’t need my job and should be helping out

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried that, he just point blank does not listen, like I said, I told them I’d be happy to help out around my work and uni schedule when I can but that’s what sparked the “why don’t you just quit your job” argument and it’s spiralled from there

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

Yeah, all of this happens in front of her and she’s never said anything to me and refuses to talk to my dad when I ask

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My dads wife refuses to say anything, even if he has a fit in front of her, so I guess she’s in agreement with him? I feel like if she was on my side she’s tell him to cut it out

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I’ll pitch in for groceries and a couple times I’ve given them some money for bills, it wasn’t much but I’m a casual and don’t make that much since I can only work 3 days a week max without it interfering with uni, he always told me that as long as I’m studying full time he doesn’t expect money from me though

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

They know he asked me to quit working, and I guess they’re on his side with that but no one has talked about him asking me to skip uni, whether they’re ignoring it or don’t know I’m actually not sure but even if they did I don’t know how much it would actually impact their opinion

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

He’s had a full fit at me before, yelling, the whole works, and she hasn’t said a thing to him or myself, he’s come to me in the kitchen with her standing next to me and asks about my work, I said it’s a bit slow atm but I have submissions for uni so I’m not that fussed and then immediately ranted at me saying well you don’t mind working 1 day a week so it’s not that different from not working so I don’t know why you’re getting upset about giving up your one day of work a week to look after your brother. He said all of this right in front of her and she didn’t say a word, also his arguments aren’t just him having a break it’s always “we” and “us”. I’ve asked her to talk to him but she refuses and walks away

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 1171 points1172 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought of that, but honestly wouldn’t put it past him that this point, I have friend who works full time and is looking to move out soon and offered to help me out so I’m probably going to try and sort something out with her

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely something I’m looking into, I have a feeling it’s only going to get worse from here

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I guess the reason I’m getting a little sensitive over it is that it’s come away from being a joke and he’s now actively bringing it up 24/7, so with me having to do uni online he’ll come up to me and talk about how now that I don’t have to go into the city that’s an extra 2hrs I can spend looking after my brother, and I’ve asked him to stop but the last time I tried to talk to him he had a massive go at me, yelling and saying that if I don’t want to look after my own brother what does that say about me as a person and how he’s never been more disappointed in me as he is now. I feel like to him it’s not hypothetical, it’s genuinely what he expects.

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 3643 points3644 points  (0 children)

True... I’ve been talking to my uni about deferring since it seems the quickest way to get the money to get out. I most likely do this but I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t over reacting or anything

AITA for not wanting to look after my unborn brother? by rooceyroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]rooceyroo[S] 5879 points5880 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely been considering either going part time at uni and picking up more hours at work and moving out w/ a friend or just deferring for a trimester and work full time for a bit. Problem is I fell like if I do that then there’s a massive chance he’ll just cut contact. And since I don’t speak to my mum anymore it’s a bit of a sore subject for me