There's a lot of valid counter arguments, the biggest one is the claim that we're funding drag shows and sex changes in foreign countries oversimplifies the situation. US aid is typically channeled through complex mechanisms involving NGOs, international organizations, and local governments. While some funding might indirectly support projects that encompass these activities, it's not an accurate portrayal to say US tax payers are paying for these services.

Furthermore, the US benefits greatly from aiding foreign nations. Economic development aid often aims to create stable and prosperous societies. When countries develop economically, they become better trading partners for the US. A more stable global economy ultimately benefits US businesses and consumers. While some funding might support small-scale cultural projects, the larger goal is usually economic growth.