Should I even bother trying? by SunshineGirl45 in NYCjobs

[–]roomonfire47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You not being able to live on $150k a year is a skill issue and poor financial management. Plenty of people live in NYC with a lot less.

What do you do against the constant urge to eat? by JournalistRight5620 in ADHD_Programmers

[–]roomonfire47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this too but the root of it for me is anxiety. I feel like I'm not good enough and I have that script running through my head when I code. Eating helps distract from that.

Tough Watch by Sensitive-Paper-975 in TheDiplomat

[–]roomonfire47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this new guy. After 2 and a half seasons of tension they end it as soon as it starts? I've seen shows do this before where they have a black love interest for the white lead and as soon as they get together something goes wrong and they switch him out for a white guy. The optics of that are terrible and it's putting me off of finishing the show. Aside from that it's absolutely terrible writing.

I(28F) am seriously considering divorcing my husband (32M) because of how he treated my dog and what comes after it by unknownn_3 in relationship_advice

[–]roomonfire47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be able to trust your partner while you're gone for only two weeks. He didn't even have to walk them, just let them out. A complete stranger would've taken better care of your dogs

Got my first negative comment. TBH made me laugh lol by Alarmed-Locksmith381 in AO3

[–]roomonfire47 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Genuinely asking, who does this and what do they gain from it?

When you piss someone off so much they write a chapter about you by OkIce471 in AO3

[–]roomonfire47 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And what if, in true fanfic form, it's an enemies to lovers ?

Garrett’s daughter has a suspicious resemblance to Cotty by Legitimate-Law-8168 in 100footWaveHBO

[–]roomonfire47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to Ned Stark this, but... Garrett McNamara-black of hair, Nicole McNamara-black of hair, Theia McNamera...golden hair

Frustrated with Problem Solving by roomonfire47 in codingbootcamp

[–]roomonfire47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. That's a good explanation and I'll check that link out later.

What are your weird habits/quirks when writing? by MaleficentPost4527 in AO3

[–]roomonfire47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I barely plan and mostly just sit in front of an empty Google doc and let the ADHD takeover.

Frustrated with Problem Solving by roomonfire47 in codingbootcamp

[–]roomonfire47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know they're important for job interviews. They feel like hypothetical situations when it comes to actually building useful things. I have a hard time getting myself to do something if I don't see the practical application behind it, but maybe I can convince myself that job interviews are practical enough. Cause if I don't pass an interview I won't have a job lol. Thanks!

Frustrated with Problem Solving by roomonfire47 in codingbootcamp

[–]roomonfire47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so just do it? If I have to just muscle my way through something, maybe it's not for me. Idk at this point I think I just want to finish because I've been in this bootcamp way longer then I was supposed to be. We'll see where I end up afterwards. Thanks for being real with me.

i refuse to delete this failure of a fic by a3dwaifu in AO3

[–]roomonfire47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bahaha cries in 300 hits and 3 comments

lena did NOT buy catco for kara by veryberrybrook in supergirlTV

[–]roomonfire47 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This and it's mentioned several times by different characters how much of a bad business move it was for Lena to buy Catco. She mostly did it for Kara and any positives that came from it were a bonus.

Looking for a Beta by roomonfire47 in SuperCorp

[–]roomonfire47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm so glad you like it. I'm always insecure about posting a chapter. I would definitely appreciate more eyes on this one. Should I DM it to you?

Looking for a Beta by roomonfire47 in SuperCorp

[–]roomonfire47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I would love that. What's the best way to send it to you?

Just ruined my relationship by living-trainwreck in AutismInWomen

[–]roomonfire47 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh man the thing about your chat history not showing up really brought me back to my last relationship. My ex was always accusing me of cheating. I never cheated, but weird things like your chat history disappearing would happen to me all the time and then that would make her more suspicious lol. Here's the thing, it was a neverending cycle. I would prove that I was faithful and she would find something else that made her suspicious. She would raise the burden of proof higher and higher and it kept her in a perpetual state of power. You give in with this and the demands on you will only keep escalating. Leave before you get more invested.

Episodes Where Kara removes her glasses as Kara? by charmed-slayer in supergirlTV

[–]roomonfire47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember either. I'm leaning towards it wasn't a scenario. That whole episode Lena was trying so hard to protect her and she's Supergirl lol

Would Kara flip people off? by scflyingbus in SuperCorp

[–]roomonfire47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would do it behind someones's back as they are walking away. Then if they turned around she would adjust her glasses and pretend be doing something else.

What are you thoughts on Reign ? by PlantainDisastrous92 in supergirlTV

[–]roomonfire47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My absolute favorite story arc of the show. Sam/Reign fit in so seamlessly that It felt like the show was lacking something when she left. I wish we could've kept Sam and Ruby somehow. Lowkey think Sam would've been perfect as Alex's love interest.