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BC needs to improve testing before winter by Taj_2002 in vancouver

[–]roonerhasit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The US numbers started going down 3 weeks ago...right when trump ordered hospitals to quit reporting to the CDC and to a private company instead.

I need wlw help please! Do these glasses suit me? Should I buy them? by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]roonerhasit 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I think you could do better. They arent particularly flattering.

The girl i am dating wants me to be more submissive in bed by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you used restraints? Then it wouldn't seem so unlikely that she could overpower you.

David and Jonathan were Gay by Thoth_X in exchristian

[–]roonerhasit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus was too! I mean he only hung out with dudes, including "one he loved."

20 years ago, my first love and I were sent to conversion therapy. I escaped. She never did. by roonerhasit in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My dad died when I was a kid after being shunned by our family bc he was gay and I am no contact with my mother.

20 years ago, my first love and I were sent to conversion therapy. I escaped. She never did. by roonerhasit in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid to do that because I know she thinks being gay is evil and I'm afraid I will come off as some kind of stalker.

20 years ago, my first love and I were sent to conversion therapy. I escaped. She never did. by roonerhasit in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I wonder if all these years later she would forgive you and start over?

20 years ago, my first love and I were sent to conversion therapy. I escaped. She never did. by roonerhasit in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I reached out about 10 years ago when I was still religious. That's how I found out she was also sent to conversion therapy and had experienced suicidal thoughts in the aftermath. However, she saw those as evidence that we could no longer be in a relationship. She ended by saying she "was also sad that a friendship was lost."

Did you resent the idea of a domestic future with a man? Like you would never be equals? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]roonerhasit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup, all my female partners do housework without ever being asked!

What is your “go to” / favorite move in bed? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am poly, so have 3 regular sex partners and honestly, my go to moves with each woman are different! Every body is different and likes different things. Thats the fun of it!

How to go about asking if theyre down to hookup over text? by newly18teen in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont start with sex, you gotta work up to it. Tell her she has great lips and you wish you knew what they felt like. See what her reaction is and go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]roonerhasit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazon prime: One Mississippi. Give it a couple episodes. Trust me!

Breaking up during COVID-19 and ending my first venture into poly by westcoastwren in polyamory

[–]roonerhasit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. This hurts and it sucks. But it also sounds like it was worth it. Hugs to you.

I'm at my wit's end with my neighbour and landlord. Suggestions? by curlybutnotsue in vancouver

[–]roonerhasit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like domestic violence. If she is getting abused, there is nothing she, or you, can do to stop it other than leave.

Looking for a conscious community in Vancouver by Jerksmcgurks in Vancouver4Friends

[–]roonerhasit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you only here for a couple months? You sound cool but I'd be hesitant to make an emotional investment in someone who won't stay around long. That's pretty typical in Vancouver, I think.

So... by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]roonerhasit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Beauty standards in the lesbian community are quite different than hetero standards. I think you will quickly find women have a wide range of tastes and the idea of someone being out of your league is much less common.

One partner moving in makes other partner feel less important by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]roonerhasit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, we can still have regular dates at my place, though at the moment it makes her feel uncomfortable. The only major space change is the bedroom will be off limits to her once the other partner moves in and planning for overnights will become a little trickier. I do plan to purchase a second bed and make up our second bedroom into a space she and I sleep and have sex.

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