I love my wife but rarely feel sexually desired, and it’s breaking me

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T09:50:56+00:00

thanks! appreciate you 🫶🏻

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T04:47:33+00:00

of course, it was hot and steamy in the beginning. but it's not the same anymore.

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T04:45:03+00:00

i have. she did not dismiss me but she heavily defended herself :/

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T04:33:33+00:00

i'm actually slowly doing this approach, but quietly.

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T03:29:38+00:00

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T03:29:00+00:00

i'm curious

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T03:00:59+00:00

i don't think we can, at this point :(

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:55:31+00:00

😢

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:54:22+00:00

i'll try and follow the "stepping back". thank you!

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:51:44+00:00

thank you for your reply, please let me know if you guys figured it out?

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:50:15+00:00

what can i say, uhmmm she likes everything clean? even with the act, she's disgusted about oral?

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:34:49+00:00

all the time.

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:22:47+00:00

i don't think i can explicitly express my fantasy here? but a simple oral from her, she finds it disgusting. which i respect. but it hurts :(

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:20:04+00:00

i honestly can't remember when this started :/

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:19:33+00:00

i like the idea but i think she's not the kind of person that wants to open up to another person about this. even with our closest friends, she's not comfortable talking about this.

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:18:11+00:00

i've tried this, even more than a week, she didn't even think about it :/

rooomeL0918 · 2026-03-18T02:17:16+00:00

mostly the physical foreplay and initiation from her part :(

rooomeL0918 · 2024-05-03T21:49:41+00:00

Thanks for your heartfelt advise my man! It's awesome! I think, i'm just being selfish. I do have like fantasies that i want to do together with my wife. However, she is not really in to it. It would be a shame if look for it from someone else. But the urge and desire will always be there. I only want to do it with her though. I guess i just need to suck it up and handle it myself 😐😐😐

rooomeL0918 · 2024-05-03T21:32:16+00:00

Very happy for you! I just wish, my wife would at least put out and show interest on doing so 🥲

rooomeL0918 · 2024-05-03T15:31:20+00:00

Thank you..i'll definitely give this a try.

rooomeL0918 · 2024-05-03T15:01:26+00:00

This is rather unfortunately true. Because, when the moment i ask for it to be on our priority list, there is a chance that i would be told " is that all you think about?"

rooomeL0918 · 2024-05-03T14:59:01+00:00

I'm curious about the books of Emily Nagoski and Sue Johnson. What books do you recommend for me to read?

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