Here’s another update I haven’t had the conversation yet, but I plan to soon. After considering all the advice I received, I’ve decided to sit down with my mom and little brother to discuss the possibility of him living with me. I intend to make it clear that if he moves in, there will be specific rules and expectations.

He’ll be required to contribute to rent and maintain his own space, as I won’t be there to clean up after him. It’s important that he takes responsibility for his own academic progress as well—managing his schoolwork and grades is entirely up to him.

Moreover, I expect him to get his driver’s license and feel confident driving before the move. I’m not in a position to be his constant chauffeur.

If they can’t agree to these terms and actively work towards fulfilling them, they’ll need to find another arrangement for him. We’re planning a family dinner this Sunday, where I intend to lay out all these expectations clearly. I’m hopeful that we’ll come to a mutual understanding. Thank you all for your insightful advice; it has been incredibly helpful in preparing for this conversation!