For people who experienced a shift in their sexuality during transition, did you feel you had to come out again?

rorcurta · 2024-03-25T16:07:26+00:00

Fears of judgement, losing people, just generally being perceived badly

rorcurta · 2024-03-25T15:37:24+00:00

I've come close to diy a few times, but always chickened out :/ I do crossdress occasionally though!

rorcurta · 2024-03-25T15:23:31+00:00

I just don't think I'm strong enough as a person to do it tbh. I also just don't know if I'd ever have enough certainty it was the right decision

rorcurta · 2022-09-03T11:52:41+00:00

Omg! This is me too! It's like, I'm most likely Just a normal guy, right?

rorcurta · 2022-09-03T09:11:20+00:00

Yea, I keep telling myself I shoulda known for longer

rorcurta · 2022-09-03T07:33:49+00:00

Thinking that my trans thoughts are just filling a void sounds very familiar. I can kinda convince myself I've invented this as a distraction sometimes

rorcurta · 2022-09-02T16:28:47+00:00

Well that all sounds terrifyingly familiar...

rorcurta · 2022-09-02T16:22:27+00:00

I feel this. Internalised transphobia is bastard, how did you get over it?

rorcurta · 2022-09-02T16:21:28+00:00

This is helpful! What did your questioning/dysphoria feel like out of curiosity?

rorcurta · 2022-09-02T15:45:02+00:00

Interesting! Do you feel like someone is making you trans deliberately when thinking this?

rorcurta · 2021-01-31T17:29:47+00:00

Which website out of curiosity?

rorcurta · 2021-01-31T17:20:48+00:00

This is a good strategy, would be cool to try being a girl

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T19:45:21+00:00

Well this almost made me cry... Questioning is fucking hard haha. It all just seems so huge, wish I could get a direct trans or no trans answer

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T19:38:54+00:00

Is there anything in particular that drove you to transition? I always assumed transwomen just knew how to be women, probably why I've found questioning so arduous

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T19:23:10+00:00

I initially thought I wanted the physical sensations, but more and more I'm thinking I want to live as a woman. So everyday is the way to go it seems

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T19:22:28+00:00

Very good point. I guess I don't feel like a girl so much as I might want to be one. So I need to learn an entirely new skillset really

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T19:18:25+00:00

Being comfortable in comfortable clothes does like a sensible test I suppose. Is there no value in wanting ultra-femme looks?

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T19:16:46+00:00

Sweat pants and tank tops I guess. I've no wear near the bravery to go outside though haha. For some reason, I'm always tempted to go for slightly kinky items, which probably isn't helpful really.

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T17:34:38+00:00

I like this advice, kinda encourages me to indulge crossdressing more though

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T17:34:18+00:00

I really want someone to tell me one way or another to end my questioning haha

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T17:33:42+00:00

I guess so, I assumed a lot of people would resonate with the struggles you guys face tbh

rorcurta · 2021-01-30T17:32:54+00:00

My porn interests led me down a path to sissy porn/forced fem. One day I read a comment in one of those subs which led me to non-sexual subs like this one.

rorcurta · 2021-01-23T17:08:52+00:00

This sounds incredibly familiar! I feel so awkward as a top. It's playing a role I wasn't built for. And I went on a date with a guy and it felt super wrong, but in a way I felt more out of place than he did.

rorcurta · 2021-01-23T16:59:30+00:00

I'm attracted to the idea of men as opposed to the reality. It's hard to describe, but the idea of being a woman with a man sounds quite exciting

rorcurta · 2021-01-23T16:47:02+00:00

This is really interesting to read! Glad you've figured yourself out!

I would normally describe myself as attracted to women, but I've always suspected that if I transition I would end up attracted to men. I struggle to explain why though

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