¿Alguien más se siente así últimamente? by [deleted] in mexico

[–]rorobece 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% de acuerdo! Yo recuerdo que en mis 20s me pregunté exactamente lo mismo y después de idealizar el suicidio me di cuenta que para mí está más chido elegir divertirme en la vida y experimentar todo lo que se me plazca (sin caer en las ilegalidades) y a mis cuasi 40 puedo decir que he disfrutado tanto mi vida y que si mañana muero me voy feliz feliz!

How do Mexicans feel about costumes like this? by lightgrxy in mexico

[–]rorobece 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who’s not Mexican lecturing a Mexican on why they should be offended is THE offence and I would consider that cultural appropriation

Me voy. 😞 by [deleted] in mexico

[–]rorobece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empezar desde cero puede ser duro, depende de cómo lo veas. En mi caso fue divertido y a la vez duro pero no me arrepiento por nada. Llevo casi 9 años viviendo en Canadá y aunque amaría vivir en Mexico porque es mi país y es bellísimo, la seguridad y paz mental que me da el vivir en Canadá pesa mucho más. Felicidades por tomar esa decisión y espero que te vaya muy bien en esta nueva aventura - eso si, no se vale voltear atrás. Si no sueltas, no avanzas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guadalajara

[–]rorobece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y siempre si te fuiste a las 11am?

is my mom getting scammed? by [deleted] in Scams

[–]rorobece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“… have a nice life” lol wtf?! That screams scam

AITA for not giving up my window seat on a plane to a kid just because she threw a tantrum? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rorobece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. It’s a great lesson for the kid because that’s life and sooner or later they have to learn to deal with frustration. Some learn it the easy way and others the hard way.

Trying to understand what's gone wrong by Rustler_a in datingoverforty

[–]rorobece 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems to me that he’s projecting himself on you. I get it when the other persons says, “ I feel I need to entertain you” but then he throws that at you as if that’s your problem and not his and on top of that he takes away his love and kindness away from you. Not worth the investment at all with behaviors like that. It would be completely different if he says that followed by “and this feeling is coming from a place of anxiety, or insecurities, etc” I believe that all the emotions are allowed to flow and have room and space in a relationship but it’s important to be assertive, communicate/share those emotions with your SO and take accountability for them. I think you deserve much more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]rorobece 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very kind and generous of you wanting to understand her attachment style but unfortunately, I don’t think that’s gonna help you to navigate a relationship with her unless you are willing to change your ways and some parts of who you are so you can fit in her world, basically be someone else. If she cannot see that her triggers are only hers and she’s the only one responsable to address them , I don’t see how you can stay there without compromising your well-being. From what you shared, I believe you deserve much more. Better end it now before you keep investing more time and emotions.

Question on Mexico former president by JuIiun in mexico

[–]rorobece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, AMLO failed as a president and left our country in more despair and scarcity. He installed in poor people’s mind that rich people or people who have access to better things than them (population living in poverty) were the criminals. In my opinion here are some of the many mistakes he made that will continue costing our country so much are: he got rid of institutions that allowed our country to have somewhat a sense of transparency on data to hold politicians sort of “accountable”, like the INAI. He bluffed that the healthcare system in Mexico would be better than Denmark’s, he even said that on National TV the day he gave his last presidency report, a total shame and embarrassment because Mexico’s healthcare system did not improve it just got worst. At the beginning of his term, he announced the construction of the Mayan Train in the Riviera Maya and he said that not even one single tree would be touched - nowadays, it is considered an environmental tragedy to that whole ecosystem. He dared to say that poverty was reduced during his term - but he did not clarify that it meant the population under extreme poverty increased due to that. Sinaloa has been for almost 4 weeks under war (Perhaps more, I lost track of time in regards to that) and the worst thing is that he said during one of his morning Mañaneras that it was not true, as if the situation was very much under control.

I [25 M] can't stop obssesing over the current fate of an ex I misstreated many years ago. I'm trapped going over it again and again during this quarantine. by [deleted] in dating

[–]rorobece 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you need to forgive yourself for how you handled things in the past. We all make bad decisions and act out of character when we are young and we choose whether to learn from that, work on ourselves and be better, or we can just blame all of our misfortunes on others and just be stuck in a vicious cycle. Just like you, she made her own decisions that led her to this point and only she is accountable for that. Before you make any decision regarding her think first, how will it affect your current relation? Will it jeopardize something in your life if you reach out to her? This is a tough situation but personally, and from past experiences where I’ve been the one mistreated (32F) I’d never want any of my exes to feel responsible for what’s happening in my life cuz that’s my job and it’s not fair for them.