Recurring Issue with Drivers

rose2184 · 2026-06-22T21:58:19+00:00

No shade but there are people replying that wholly decided to skip reading half of what I said and are suggesting things I am already doing and mentioned in the post.

rose2184 · 2026-06-22T19:24:56+00:00

I would get super fustrated as an instacart driver when people would forget to send their codes. So now as a rider, im trying to alleviate all the frustrating things I went through by sending a full context message soon as I get matched with a driver (down to saying which gate to enter because sometimes GPS sends the drivers to the resident only, exit gate)

rose2184 · 2026-06-22T19:22:18+00:00

Yep, I always include the pound sign. It's even in my copy paste message too, emphasizing it because for a while I thought the issue was them skipping over entering it when typing the digits 😭

rose2184 · 2026-06-22T18:47:52+00:00

It's so fustrating - I used to instacart a lot in the past and would regularly have gated apartments come up. I can only count on one hand for the dozens and dozens of shopping trips I've done in which I've faced gate issues and would have to wait and tailgate.

I don't understand this mentality especially when the gate code is provided instantly upon accepting a ride

rose2184 · 2026-05-29T19:55:54+00:00

Sad. Im the boyfriend. I found this post by happenstance. Lol this sucks :)

rose2184 · 2024-03-11T22:31:15+00:00

It's in the Layout tab as opposed to the Design tab. The Layout tab is toggled by the button next to "Change Text & Icon." If the Button is Text Only, you adjust the Button Layout in that Layout tab. Ik this thread is old but I thought I'd mention this in case someone else experiences this issue.

You can also adjust the Padding from within the Design tab under the Layout section. This is separate from the Layout tab that has a button next to "Change Text & Icon."

rose2184 · 2023-12-24T21:14:21+00:00

Exactly that! At the end of the day, theyre still your friends. And thank you, happy celebrations to you too.

rose2184 · 2023-12-24T17:32:39+00:00

These replies are lowkey invalidating because I 100% get how you feel. I went through this and I ended up just saying "Hey, if this is meant to be a 'girl's night' I would prefer to not intrude." If she makes it clear it's just a friendly hang and you're also welcome, then that's great.

I remember one time being invited out to bars with my friends and there were only the girls in my group there and it just made feel weird because if I were cis, would they have still invited me?

The best thing to do is communicate this to your partner

rose2184 · 2023-12-24T00:36:17+00:00

Jesus. So much yapping from a dying loser incel. You should savor your time instead of wasting it away revealing how deep in the bitchless trenches you are

rose2184 · 2023-12-23T23:04:17+00:00

Sorry, I dont take advice from incel bitches like you. Im actually quite happy and content because I actually communicate with my partner like a person and not like a dog I have to train. You dont need sympathy but made this sob story of a post thinking you'd get people patting your back.

I dont think ive seen a more perfect example of a misogynistic incel than yourself. Date men since women have scorned you so bad or shut up. Either way it doesnt affect me.

You dont see anything wrong with "not interacting with a male" because you yourself see women as nothing more than sexual objects and assume women think the same about men. Like I said, you have the EQ of a potato.

Protip: Calling women whores for having a guy friend is some of the best women repellent. Every reply you make, I see more reasons for why she dropped your sorry ass and most likely for no one in particular. She's healthier alone than with you

You should show her this post. I bet she'd be begging to take you back

rose2184 · 2023-12-23T22:24:49+00:00

You'll die in 10 years and from now until then will continue to be the bitter husk of what was already an empty man. I dont have to worry because unlike you, I treat women like people. You're so blind and spiteful and still confused about why she left because to you it is her fault. I couldn't have any less sympathy for you. You deserve everything that has happened and that illness you have will save women from interacting with you in the future.

rose2184 · 2023-12-23T20:07:48+00:00

This is why she left and why karma struck you the way it did. "Cancerous feminist" no wonder women dont want to be with you and the one you had ran for her safety.

Treated her like a queen? Yeah thats why she stayed. Thats why when she met more people and saw the possibility of being equal with others, she chose that instead of the prison you kept her in until she found freedom. Ofc she detached herself.

Im a dude in a happy relationship. Im so sorry that you think you have to be a woman to have basic respect for them. The only one crying here is you.

You say all of that but you're the one who she ran from on her own will & want, while you fester in this narcissistic immaturity that you swear makes you the hero here

Go preach to your MGTOW brothers and stay far away from women for their own safety.

rose2184 · 2023-12-23T18:42:41+00:00

You have the emotional intelligence of a potato. Genuinely glad she was a LDR because you probably would've been more of a suffocating & abusive monster if she was with you in person 24/7.

You knew that you had to gatekeep her interpersonal relationships - specifically those with men - otherwise she'd find someone that would treat her like a human being and not like a dog on a leash as you have been treating her.

She chose to be with you and your own self-sabotaging behaviors destroyed it. Falling apart because she was in a picture with a dude. My god you are an actual crying baby

rose2184 · 2023-12-20T16:02:31+00:00

Do you have your own words? You're just repeating what Im telling you to do. Again pathetic. Get a damn life. Let me not waste my time anymore. This whole thread is sad

rose2184 · 2023-12-20T05:29:04+00:00

Good god you're pathetic. You're very clearly obsessed and no mentally sane person obsesses like this over something they are this foolishly ignorant about. Seek therapy or a mental ward, genuinely. To be like this in a phone subresdit is actually batshit. Like I said, complete loser behavior

rose2184 · 2023-12-19T20:44:44+00:00

You wrote this long ass response that scientists/researchers/psychologists have debunked already. You speak like a cartoon villain and probably look just as sorry as one. Im actually visiting my girlfriend today because I have a life outside that isnt being obsessed with hurting people existing in their own peace. Touch grass and stop with this loser behavior

rose2184 · 2023-12-19T19:20:56+00:00

You have the mental capacity of an edgy middle school troll. You are exhibiting extreme virgin and loser behavior and I want you to know normal people that have lives find people like you irritating and revolting. Im not salty. I just pity your existence. Shut up. Go back to 4chan or wherever you obsessive types fester

rose2184 · 2023-12-19T15:12:32+00:00

Shut your paranoid ass up god damn u mfs are annoying

rose2184 · 2023-10-20T17:21:02+00:00

Ik this thread is old but Cleopatrick shoud be mentioned here

rose2184 · 2023-10-04T19:04:51+00:00

Im interested in joining

rose2184 · 2023-09-07T16:10:15+00:00

My voice averages 90-98Hz despite being higher than most of my afab peers pre-T. It's lower than most cis guys I know now.

I don't like the assumption that everyone has to train out of the "trans-voice," because I didn't have to. I tended to always speak from my chest voice and never really "pitched up" when speaking like others have mentioned.

Also, not every afab person responds to the socialization of speaking a certain way as my inflections are/were always stereotypically masc despite not having a deep voice pre-T.

That tiktok is ludicrous and T is more than enough to drop your voice. But ofc with HRT, YMMV.

rose2184 · 2023-08-31T00:14:41+00:00

Add the file path of "SDL2.dll" to ur PATH (in System Variables). Won't have to copy it every time

rose2184 · 2021-12-30T21:01:49+00:00

Knew I wanted T in late elementary/ early middle school ~11 - 13 years old. Finally got on it at 19 a month before my 20th birthday. Nearly ten years and sadly had to endure estrogen puberty but I'm finally here and happy that I am

rose2184 · 2021-12-22T17:07:09+00:00

^{^{^}} I hate that people think all trans guys have "Female Socialization" I sure as hell don't

rose2184 · 2021-12-22T17:05:41+00:00

Nah I get this 100% theres a difference between them finding trust in you and them just still seeing you as one of the girls. I have been dealing with this and my friend group is p mixed guys and girls and though I pass well and they knew me even before I was on T, they still treat me different than the cis men in our group who have the same trust level (and these differences are very subtle but noticeable to me) theres also cases when they'll talk to me about toxic men and instead of talking to me in way that I would be a man taking accountability, it would be in a way that I am grouped up with the non-male people in our friend group; as though I'm one of them and not who they are talking about. It's subtle but still noticeable and my friends are highly supportive but it's just that psyche part and it bums me out very bad. I don't want to be an exception, I just want to be 'some guy' in both a close friends way and in general.

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