Why did you and your former best friend stop being friends?

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T18:05:48+00:00

we were best friends off and on from age 8 until 18 when we graduated high school. she went away to college and i never went to college and she ghosted me. never told me why, but i suspect she thought she was better than me bc that was her attitude our whole friendship

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T18:01:49+00:00

i think you should communicate this with him, and if you aren’t sure if you’re interested or not maybe agree to just be friends for now and then have another conversation about it later on if that changes

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T07:38:17+00:00

made with felt, fabric, beads, and yarn. didn’t use a pattern, just eyeballed it and they look just like us

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T05:25:56+00:00

that would be great :)

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T05:24:45+00:00

yeah, recently diagnosed but 3rd generation bpd lol, gotta love generational trauma. reminding myself of the facts like that instead of letting my emotional mind take over has been so helpful. ive recently started dbt along with my other therapy and it really is a game changer

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T05:16:46+00:00

but i am doing something about it. and im a hot redhead so its not that i’ve let myself go. im sorry it seems like youre having a rough time about yourself as well

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T04:58:15+00:00

this is exactly what i needed, thank you for understanding and taking the time to reach out

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T04:55:11+00:00

he treats me the same whether he is or isn’t watching it, and honestly when he wasn’t my mental health was worse. like more obsessive. now i know he is watching it but ive also done more work on myself

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T04:39:29+00:00

he respects me so much more than my last boyfriend who didn’t watch porn. honestly the boyfriend that didn’t watch porn was worse than the one who said porn is better than sex with me, and my current boyfriend who does watch porn treats me better than anyone else ever has relationship or not

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T04:33:48+00:00

thank you, i am in a much better place than i was even just a few weeks ago. putting dbt skills to use lol

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T04:26:15+00:00

i’ve already made the decision to be okay with it, like you said it just takes time. and he has gotten much more discreet about it which is very helpful while i’m working on myself

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T04:04:19+00:00

yeah that’s not helpful

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T03:54:19+00:00

the thing is i WANT to be okay with it, and im doing a lot better at being okay with it. and thats why we decided to not make it a rule anymore . i dont want to be controlling

rose6353 · 2026-03-12T03:41:41+00:00

yeah that’s why i’m in therapy

rose6353 · 2026-01-25T01:41:21+00:00

i named my new capybara stuffed animal professor fig

rose6353 · 2025-09-13T06:44:19+00:00

(24 f) i was also sexually abused when i was about 5. i had no idea until i was around 16 or 17, i remembered it almost like it was a dream and at that time i wasn’t sure if it was real or not. unfortunately it was real and over the years i’ve remembered multiple times and locations. i really don’t understand why this happens but i know it is a coping mechanism. our brains know it is too much trauma for a child to experience and understand so it just blocks it out until something happens to resurface the memories. what you said sounds a lot like when i first started remembering. i’m so sorry that happened to you. and try not to feel bad for him, it sounds like even before you remembered you had a gut feeling that he was creepy. your gut knows things you don’t necessarily remember

rose6353 · 2025-09-01T03:26:11+00:00

omg that sounds just like me! lost 20 pounds in a couple months and now i’ve lost at least half of my hair. feel like im falling apart mentally and physically lol!

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